Should I get over just because he has a woman?

[Anonymous]

So i really like this guy who is 10 years older than me. Im 18 and he's 28. He has a relationship for 9 years with a woman. I flirt with him in a not obvious way like actually telling him i like him and he flirt with me but never tells me he has a woman. I really like him and have feelings for him. What should i do?

[Changiis07]

Girl! He is in a relationship and is much older, do not be that person to break up what they have. Also if he is flirting with you and he is in a relationship imagine what he would do if you and him get together.

[Asker]

I knoow. I dont want to be the person to make them break up but i can't deny my feelings for him. I think he likes the attention of a younger girl and find it fun. But i dont know… i love hiimmm :((

[Changiis07]

More than likely, plus that is a long relationship he has been in. I suggest you try to distance yourself from him and start talking to other guys your age. So yes get over him

[Asker]

Thats true. But i feel so heartbroken trying to get over him. I get so sad and depressed

[ElvenMr]

Don't mess up his relationship is what you should do. You should stop flirting with him in my opinion.
If he keeps flirting with you, then just tell him that you know that he has a girlfriend/wife (?), and then you can go from there depending on his answer to that.
They might break up for whatever reason, but that reason shouldn't be you.
Then you can chase him/let him chase you.

[jahaims]

You are only 18 and are already trying to be a home wrecker. If a guy will cheat with you he will also cheat on you.

[Jamie05rhs]

Why are you messing with someone who is in a relationship? Stop being a whore.

[Asker]

Do u think im intentatially trying to break them up?

[Asker]

I like him, i have feelings for him

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes; you're intentionally trying to break them up.

And you just admitted it.

[Asker]

No, i didn't. If i was intentionslly trying to break them up i would ask him to go out for a drink or tell him i find him attractive. I told him im not intrested in him in that way. Because he has a girl. But im ”friendly” flirting. Like we laugj together and so on but never flirt in a sexual way.

[Asker]

Like we are more having fun together

[Jamie05rhs]

My gosh, you people are so dishonest.

You're still flirting with him!!

SMH!

[PatriceONeal]

More girls chasing men already in relationships. Remember this guys when they say men are dogs and we cheat. Lol

[Wise4myage]

He's taken, so stay away from him and find guys who are single.

[WhitneySnow]

He’s gonna break your heart if you’re not careful

[athlete_7]

Get over date a new guy