Why can’t he get over his ex. When I’m kind of better?

[Anonymous]

I’m not saying I’m better because of looks or anything that’s all subjective but people have said I’m more attractive but pretty is not the point here. she was a pot head with an awful family who forgave him for his cheating and stuff I’m in school and doing well for myself I’m very generous to him during his broke weeks and he still misses her? It’s so frustrating they where together for 5/6 years, we’ve been together for 10 months it hurts.

[iseekpinetrees]

Some guys don't get over exs. If your the first girl after this girl then your probably just the rebound but dating 10 months is a long time for a rebound in a way. You could just be the time waster til someone better comes along.

[Asker]

How do you know he’s looking for something better? I mean he’s not in school, not a total catch and I’m here dating him. So him wasting my time is ridic when realistically I have better options

[spartan55]

Someone sure is full of themselves.

[iseekpinetrees]

True he might be too lazy that could be why he's dating you.

[iseekpinetrees]

It sounds like you should probably find someone who matches more your level of accomplishments in life. If you find yourself thinking of him as a loser in any form he's not the one.

[Pterodon]

You’re just a rebound. He isn’t over her because he really loved her. Some never recover from a heartbreak

[Asker]

Really?

[Asker]

But why use someone that actually has a lot to offer as a rebound?

[Pterodon]

That’s what a rebound is. It’s a way to not deal with pain

[spartan55]

@asker
What exactly is it that you have to offer?

[Pterodon]

You take narcotics to deal with physical pain. You use a rebound for emotional pain

[spartan55]

Why do you think he isn't over her? You are shallow af by the way.

[Asker]

Because his best friend told me “fuck no he isn’t over her when you meet someone like that you can never truly get over them! U can get over them if you meet someone just as good or better”

[spartan55]

So your assumption is all based on what his best friend thinks? Really?
You may think you're really and all that, but you sure aren't very bright.

[Asker]

It’s possible he’s projecting based on his experience and it isn’t true at all of course

[spartan55]

Right, so why did you take what he said as gospel and run with it? This is the type of shit that girls do that we despise.

[fred_durst]

his ex must be really good in bed

[Asker]

Maybe

[In_Trance]

If he's not over her, you're not better

[Asker]

She was probably a better match for him