NOTE: This post is being put under dating, but can apply to anything.
For me, it is my lack of a dating life.
Between housing prices skyrocketing, the fact that I am not far enough past bankruptcy to really start recovering and the fact that I am 29 and still trying to get my career together, I have realized that I am not ready to date and that it will be a while before I will be able to.
By the time I feel like I would be far enough into my career to feel stable enough to date, I could easily be in my mid-30s. By the time I properly get to know a woman enough to get married (if she is similar age to me), we will probably be too old to have kids.
Given all of this, I have realized that the odds of me being stable enough to be able to start a family before the time runs out to be able to have kids are slim to none. This may change, but if not, then at least I can live with myself knowing at least I did not bring my kids into a world that is getting further from God.
For me, it is my lack of a dating life.
Between housing prices skyrocketing, the fact that I am not far enough past bankruptcy to really start recovering and the fact that I am 29 and still trying to get my career together, I have realized that I am not ready to date and that it will be a while before I will be able to.
By the time I feel like I would be far enough into my career to feel stable enough to date, I could easily be in my mid-30s. By the time I properly get to know a woman enough to get married (if she is similar age to me), we will probably be too old to have kids.
Given all of this, I have realized that the odds of me being stable enough to be able to start a family before the time runs out to be able to have kids are slim to none. This may change, but if not, then at least I can live with myself knowing at least I did not bring my kids into a world that is getting further from God.
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