i'm lonely some times i think about dating but i dont want to put with any bullshit or change how i'm.
i'm thinking i should just live my life alone & focus saving up money
Don't forget that there are people in marriages that are lonely. People who date and have relationships are still lonely. Loneliness is also about the relationship that you have with yourself (I'd argue this is most of it). I do not date, have no intention of marrying or anything of the sort. The pink that said it's a dead end could have well been projecting.
I may be one of the lucky ones that do not get lonely, but even if you do, I'd say it's better than wasting time with what's out there today. For women it's different because they need that social validation much more.
In any case the way I see it is I make a decision and I completely own whatever the consequences are (women generally do not do this). I am not willing to jump through hoops, not willing to pay for dates, and I'm not willing to play the dating game that is all designed to benefit women while men become simps.
Do you do any strength training?
Hey, as long as you recognize this is your choice, cool.
But there are dozens of dudes here who claim they are being persecuted. And don't accept that they have chosen to be lonely.
That's a dead end, but if that is what you want, stay lonely and single.
why is it a dead end
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You have to do what is right for you, but just think to how you might feel in your 80's looking back.. might you regret it?
I honestly think you might!
No. Of course not. It is not stupid at all.
No. Read Bible about single people.
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