Can a guy be single for life?

[Anonymous]

So I have completely let go of my apperance and don’t really seem to care anymore I already have low self esteem and was used as a placeholder in my last relationship so evidently I’m not good enough

[midnightmoon05]

If you let one failure dictate your life… sure… it’s easy way out.
my life is stronger and have greater will power …

I came out stronger after my hubby decided to end our marriage … no child support and alimony i m better than before.

[Asker]

Well the thing is I invested everything into this relationship

[Asker]

So I had my heart in it

[midnightmoon05]

And you think I didn’t. Plus 2 kids to raise and become a single mother?

[midnightmoon05]

Guess what took me one yr to feel sorry for myself. Took another to let go of my sadness and anger… stood up and had to restart.
It’s been 20 yrs… kids and I are doing great… but it took time and care

[midnightmoon05]

10 yrs…
Not 20 years.

[Anonymous]

Yes they can, and almost surely will be with your pitiful attitude. No one wants to deal with that.

[Asker]

It’s not a pitiful attitude are you just supposed to keep getting shit on and somehow keep your confidence

[Anonymous]

Absolutely, there was a monk who is rumoured to with the exception of being born, never seen a woman in his life so in short totally possible

[MacDaddyRico]

I vowed that as a child.

Here I am, never been married or in a serious relationship.

Still single.

[Iron_Man]

Yes, but most men probably date