If you express hurt and discomfort, he should immediately stop what he's doing.
That he doesn't shows he's only going to get worse. Because you're allowing him to disrespect, hurt, and trample all over you and your feelings.
Draw the hard line, and leave him if he won't respect it.
It isn't normal, healthy, or acceptable for him to insult you. They're not jokes if they hurt your feelings. And why are you with someone who not only doesn't care about hurting your feelings, but GASLIGHTS you about it?
Leave him, and find someone more like you deserve - someone who will respect, listen, and understand you.
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Negative people are a pain in the ass and useless for relationships. I would have stopped seeing him as soon as I foung out his "humor" is just insulting people.
Wow i make similar jokes.
It only hurts cus you yourself think your below avarage IQ.
When u know your smart, jokes like these are funny, to me it seemed funny enough, cus i know where i stand. You obviosly dont know where u stand on this and thus took it the wrong way.
Dont take my explanation the wrong way pls. Just trying to clarify it for you.
Let him know it's hurting your feelings. Regardless if sensitive or not, he should be respecting that and because he CARES about you, wouldn't do it or limit it. But he also needs to know how you feel first. And if that doesn't work, try giving it back to him and see how he likes it lol. Maybe he'll "get it" then?
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Personally I woudl say yes but ig u made it clear u don't find it funny then he is being a asshole as your humour just don't match up
No, that’s passive aggressive gaslighting. It’s abusive. DTMFA.
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