Boyfriend insults jokingly?

[Anonymous]

How to deal with it

Even his daughter

She sent him some text and he was like"lol listen to this little cheeky cunt"

Yup i mean he loves her a lot she is 20 and asked him to buy her food... again

But he said it to her

Today he told me smiling "sweaty bitch"because i got white lines on my back from sweat

I gave him a death stare

He laughed and said im just joking you know mu humour

And grabbed my cheeks and bumped into my foreahdd smiling lovingly

I felt kinda funny but i didn't like a lot tbat joke but i mean i know its joke

Its normal or no?

[nspencer]

Nope it’s actually a trait of a convert narcissist lol. Ok not saying he is one just from that😅 but honestly if your intuition is saying something is off with him and he doesn’t stop if you would ask him to stop doing that I would listen to your gut and reconsider this relationship. Also why I said convert narcissist is cause they can throw out insults in a joking way to be subtle with emotional abuse just be careful. It’s can start subtle and increase with time. Again not saying he’s one for sure just throwing it out for food for thought and maybe be observant for any other weird behaviors.

[Asker]

You are right

[daejahdabree]

if it bothers u tell him

ask yourself how do you take this do you take it bad

ask yourself is this affecting your daughter in a negative way

if the answer to those questions is yes, then tell him to stop and be firm.

if its not hurting anyone and y'all dont care and its just how y'all play then ust leavei t

[Gremlinimo]

You should be close enough to know that he's only joking, and really doesn't mean any harm. Tell him you don't like it, but please do it in a way that won't upset him, cos it sounds like he was trying to be cute with you. x

[Asker]

He was and i know it
He just insults everyone lol

[Gremlinimo]

I think that may just be his sense of humour... mine is a dry humour and sarcasm (ugh), but i can't help it. Everyone who knows me knows who i am, and they chose what to laugh at and what to groan at, lol.

[Asker]

What is dry humour?
Never heard

[Gremlinimo]

So when trying to be funny, it's not always apparent that it's a joke, because the person will deliver the "joke" in a normal tone of voice usually with a straight face, and the person hearing it will have to think whether its a joke or not because it's not obvious. But if delivered to the wrong kind of audience - say someone who doesn't expect it, or doesn't see that it's a joke, it can seem offensive, even though it was never meant to be.

[Anonymous]

He can probably get away with rape because of how good looking he is.

[Asker]

Wait what
Wtf

[Opinion Owner]

It's was a bad joke sorry.

[Mart10]

Wtf is wrong with him? Wow!!

[Asker]

What?
Well yeah
He insults all the people all the time
He is like:that bitch, that idiot, that cunt etc
Yup

[Asker]

Once durning sex he called me sexy bitch

[In_Trance]

there's truth behind every joke

[Asker]

What

[Straight2thepoint]

U aren't happy. So move on.