Would you rather date an introvert or extrovert? (Page 2)

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I've been an introvert for as long as I can remember, I've always kept to myself and often view the "popular crowd" very negatively, often seeing them as nothing more than immature entitled brats who will get nowhere when their parent's money runs out.  While that is most definitely a harsh characterization, it is an experience I've had frequently with those who consider themselves extroverts. I also find that these people are often real life examples of the Dunning-Krueger effect in that they're supremely confident that they know everything while simultaneously knowing absolutely nothing, which explains why these people are so liberal and dogmatic in their viewpoints.  For these reasons, I don't think it could ever work with an extrovert, although my first girlfriend was a conservative extrovert as they apparently exist, however she ended up sorta not really cheating on me. She ghosted me after being official for 6 months and reappeared only when I begged someone who knew her for an explanation and she'd gone with someone else as she then told me.  I've become much more assertive in the past year but still remain an introvert, not liking big crowds and rarely enjoying small talk unless it's with my current girlfriend who I've been with for the past 2 years following the fiasco that my ex created above. I see most extroverts as people who simply follow the herd, not taking a single moment to question what they're being told, or not being capable of thinking for themselves. Of course that isn't true for all of them but it is in my experience for most of them.  My girlfriend has become more assertive as well, not afraid to present an opposing argument and won't nod her head simply to avoid a debate. I'm the same way and the idea of nodding my head in agreement or staying quiet when I have an opposing opinion is a crazy idea to me. Me and my girlfriend are doing great and I couldn't be happier with her☺️ Do you date introverts or extroverts?

NobodyXox · Answer

Introvert because I am an introvert as well. I think that makes dating easier because we both sometimes need our space to recover.

Reem12345reem · Answer

I don't like being an introvert , I chose B , if I knew how to communicate with people , I would never shut up , but I don't know how to keep a conversation interesting, especially with new people

AviatorTom · Answer

I'm mostly an Introvert, so an Extrovert would help me get out more, and I could help her calm down a bit.

BHooper · Answer

I have cases for both sides. I'm and extrovert among introverts but in general im very introverted. Dating an introvert would be very comfortable for me but I think an extrovert would open me up to more experiences I would have never tried on my own.

Biancam13 · Answer

I'm an ambivert leaning more on the introverted side but I love extroverted men tbh.

Mia-Wallace · Answer

My husband is extroverted. I'm introverted.  I like the dynamic.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

As an introvert I prefer dating introverts. I've dated extroverts and to me its exhausting. Always having to be somewhere. I prefer someone who enjoys the quiet.

Nads111 · Answer

None of them... An ambivert would be best. But if I had to choose between those, then introvert.

jshm2 · Answer

Introvert aka shithead lacking social skills but coveting the attention and validation of others.

DermalPunch · Answer

I didn't vote. Introverts won't leave me alone. I always end up with them.

DiegoO · Answer

I rather date someone with who I can have a healthy relationship. Introversion and extroversion doesn't matter.

Guanfei · Answer

Both. Both would fit me.  An extrovert would push me to break my boundaries and be more social. An introvert would fit my natural quietness and shyness.

007kingifrit · Answer

i expect the girl to manage the social relationships and be the conversation starter in many situations. i do interesting things and provide intellectual curiosity, she pulls me into new situations

Anonymous · Answer

As an introvert I would date another introvert. I become the extrovert when I'm with someone more introvert than me.

JoyGirl · Answer

Introvert, pls! My boyfriend and I are both introverts. We get along just great. 😌

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

A healthy balance of both. A hermit is boring as hell and a person that's always be out and about is draining.

Anonymous · Answer

extrovert. someones gotta do the talking and it's likely not me lol

TexasRed95 · Answer

I'm an introvert so I need an extrovert to get me out of my shell.

Jamesshinobi · Answer

I already have an introvert. a cat named Swatty. (she's mean and swats at everyone)

Bubbles16 · Answer

I'm a pretty big introvert so I think I'd like my partner to also be like that

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