Do you agree that a single and childless man after 35 should just stay single and don’t even try dating?

[Anonymous]

[Ευδεμονια]

I think sincerely the decisione whether to date or not depends on two main factors:
1) the person. If he’s a man who’s determined to have someone near to share his life with and if he has some experience from past dates, he can think to date and maybe to find someone right. He has to be determined and not to despond for failures and for his high age;
2) the environment. If the country he lives in, the familiar context, the town he lives in have strict mentality or don’t have good look for men who are single after a certain age, this may create a social pressure on him and this can be a discouraging. But very motivated and strong people can go against the environment they live in.


So, to answer, I think it can be thinkable for a man of 35 or more to date, it depends on his determination.

[nitsuj86]

No, I'm 36, no children. I currently date a 28-year-old woman, who also does not have children. Not sure what the issue is.

If you don't want a woman with kids, then just find one that doesn't have kids, or go a bit younger. Don't be creepy about it. But as a single 36-year-old man with no kids, I'd rather date a younger woman, than take care of someone else's kids.

Not sure why else it would matter how old someone is.

[Ms_Facesitter]

He should stop being so childish if that's what's stopping him from getting a relationship.

[Asker]

Childless not childish

[Ms_Facesitter]

O OH no! Sorry! Then I see nothing wrong! But the mindset maybe childish!

[Anonymous]

No just stop being childish and then try to find a woman.

[Wubs3000]

Maybe stop stressing it so much. I'm sure once you are older there will be single older women who are just looking to find someone to chill out with. It might be more straight forward if you guys are both on track on life and just want a partner to have fun and relax with for the rest of life

[Anonymous]

dating isn't necessary age limited , can always try and date later in life , of course the options available are going to be different by then but is always options out there. is literally 100's of dating sites with 1000's of members so hard to say is no options

its even fairly common for seniors to date later in life if single or widowed

[Anonymous]

Every man regardless of age should stop stay single and focus on life purpose, health and income. Dating the modern woman offers nothing, and the man does everything. Look at the pinks response, no questions about your background, desires or situation, but an assumption.

[Gangactivities911]

Yes I think so. Or at least not date seriously. A serious relationship is something u get when ur young as a guy and the women ur speaking to are still younger after women reach a certain age their kinda useless for a serious relationship in my opinion.

[Rob1n]

Only if he wants to. If he wants a relationship then he should just keep on dating; men in their thirties are in their prime anyway.

[zagor]

No. If that works for you, fine. But as a general rule it makes zero sense.

My cousin got married and had two kids after being single til nearly 50.

[Avicenna]

Absolutely not. My first child wasn’t born until I was 37 and I have four now.

[PatriceONeal]

You're not a woman. You can have children until you die bro.. mens attraction and value increases with age just as women's decreases. You're just starting to come into your stride in your early 30s.

[Sonorous]

How do you feel about this video:

https://youtu.be/_KqKJkWDsbQ

[Gggggzzhh]

I do not know who lied to you all, but as a 20 year old woman, I can only date guys in my age range, I do not find 30+ men attractive, most of them look old, I do not feel turned on by them. It is a myth and you're just wasting time and chances of meeting your woman if you have this mindset.

[Gggggzzhh]

@Sonorous exactly lol, we all age

[PatriceONeal]

@Gggggzzhh I had more 20 year old attracted to me at 30 than I did at 20. That's true for most men. Doesn't matter if you agree or not that women date men older than them and that's their preference.

[Gggggzzhh]

I do not know any attractive not desperate women in their 20s who prefer old men over younger ones.

[PatriceONeal]

@Sonorous he might sound smart with his accent but he completely fumbled his understanding of statistics. His graph he showed obliges you to believe that women are now less hypergamous that more of them are working which is categorically untrue. The more money women make, the more her potential partner must earn for her to consider them attractive. About 150% of her income on avg. Hypergamy is the baseline of the redpill ideologies understanding of women and he completely ignores it, he is out to prove mgtow wrong and providing some hope/cope for women.

[PatriceONeal]

@Gggggzzhh hot women in their early 20s have options. If there's an 8/10 22 yr old dude who's broke, and an 8/10 32 yr old dude who can you can do fun things with.. qomen always choose the latter. Is it short sighted and selfish? If you asked me at 22 I'd say yes. If you ask her she'd say no. I don't have to agree with the decisions women make for me to understand them.

[Gggggzzhh]

Wealth alone will not get you an attractive young woman, you need other things too.
There are plenty of wealthy young men too.
If men only, and only! were wealthy by age 30 and + it would make sense that attractive gold digger young women would go for them, regardless If they are attracted to them or not. But it is not the case, there are also wealthy young men, why would she go for the old one in that case?

[Gggggzzhh]

& what about human emotions like love?
If I am in love with a 22year old man I would rather spend my life with him, than trade him for a wealthy 30+ I have no feelings for
Believe it or not, most women are not gold diggers
Money is cool but when a woman is in love

[PatriceONeal]

@Gggggzzhh when did I say wealth alone? You say gold digger women, that is you portraying them that way not anyone else. The wealthy younger guy vs wealthy older guy analogy- the girl picks older for his experience, emotional stability, wisdom, security.. not always monetary reasons. You want to corner it into gold diggers and rich men but thats bs. And if you think it makes your position stronger to do so. You're mistaken because women really do stricly marry/date up for the most part. If you want to get mad, get mad at society/feminism.

[Adronicus]

No, if a man wants something bad enough he finds a way to make it happen.

[Xoirwinkan]

Actually around that age men should be more financially stable and able to support and family, so marriage is GREEN LIGHT GO!

[whiskeyontherocks]

No just date till you find a woman that will complement your life not burden it.

[Jamesshinobi]

my advice to all American men is never marry. stay single your whole life.

[Whatever2929292]

No I think he should date. If he wants to

[woman_2004]

I want a man like you 😭🤍

[exitseven]

No, everyone deserves to find love.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think one should always keep an open mind.

[shanshu]

I don't try any more, I'm same like you

[Fuentes]

Lol no your childless

[Astarlessnightsky]

LOL, no.

[Liuz02]

Totally no

[Anonymous]

Absolutely