amen!wow I'm surprised you have not gotten any pink downvotes yet. oh well ironically you got a blue downvote from a simp with a bruised up ego and one pink upvote from an eve with ulterior motives
@CasaNorba Well among the other 81 blue comments, it's possible that they haven't seen it yet. I've already locked horns with 2 pinkies which 1 I've blocked because she has a habit to harass so I don't need that under my comments
That’s not true, and you can’t assume that a single mom has multiple kids. Most the desperate for attention women don’t have kids they are easy to spot and they are the ones getting pregnant and having abortions just not kids. I can understand not dating someone for the drama of the dad is around it goes both ways. But you can date someone who is very successful and have a child you don’t need to be a bottom feeder unless you don’t have anything else going for you, self esteem, Looks, education.
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@Mark987 thanks 🙂
So many valid points, but get ready for the trolls for real
You are suuper duuper right. Specially when males aren't the ones who breed. I mean, how isn't there going to be someone who comes after if men just simply leave the mother with kids? Its hard to be 20+ years together nowadays until the kids are into college! The only problem I see, actually, is lets suppose you grow the children with some other guy, but the guy doesn't have kids and he feels like he wants to pass along his genes. Would you be willing to be a mother again, and repeat the long and arduous process again for him?
My question is totally different than OPs worries, no problem if a guy is willing or not, everyone is free to decide.
Men are not banks, you opened your legs bc you wanted to
I don't know, I want my babies, but I don't speak for every man, and to be honest not every case is the same. I prefer without kids, cause ensure a bit more I will have mine.
@AFellowWeeb? Are you mentally ill or something? What are you talking about 😬 and ew the fact that you just said “I opened my legs” Now this guy is exactly why I stay away from most men, just downright gross foul creature.
Loctus you can however you want
as I say I speack for me.
im disgusting but u let a random bust a nut inside of u 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃
Loctus9999 you can date however you want forsure, you don’t have to go for a single mom especially if you didn’t want to do things that way and wanted you and your partner to be first time parents together 😁
Also it’s the mental illness for me, it’s insane how you’re making up your own stories in your head about my life 🙄 And by the way you followed me from my last post you’re weird as fuck for that I just have said something that made you itch all over 😂😂
i never followed u @laPrincesitaRoxi
@AFellowWeeb As you can see, another perfect example of a woman who runs away from accountability. It's not like she couldn't do anything about being a single mother if she didn't allow herself to be bedded by the wrong man. But whatever, how dare you speak the truth! Muh FEELZ!
You’re in my business first of all, who is telling you I’m upset over the man I had a child with? You’re delusional just like dude above. I’m singleeee as fuck and choose to be, I only have friends with benefits and have made it clear I’m not even in the dating scene
I'm glad that you've made these decisions for yourself. And I hope you are happy. Let's see you say the same words when you enter your 30s. By that time, you'll probably be itching for a man to commit and then realize you have to compromise on your standards in order to have a guy to commit to you. Pretty much a very common pattern with single mothers. But all in all, hope it all works out for you. Just don't get mad when the majority of men choose to go with childless women. That's reality.
I’ve seen happy 30 year old women and I might decide I just don’t want to date in general tf lol something wrong with that? And by that time hopefully the only thing itching is my ass in the back of my dream car 🚙 lmfaoo And no I don’t that’s dumb af there’s better things to worry about in life than the crusty you settled with that brings more drama than actual happiness I don’t care someone else’s life decision is their own decision people can do whatever they want 😌
"Crusty" Damn girl you savage. That shit is actually true lol
ty for pointing out how this really is not a yes or no question due to how its worded (the mandatory feel) and is why i refuse to vote on the poll.
i started to try explaining some of why the message in the pic are off but what you said works enough and is quicker and easier.
preach that truth
Because a lot of these men who choose to get with single mohers is out of desperation to get with the woman and not out of love for the children. Don't compare this to adoption. Real adoption truly comes from the heart. While a potential step dad would be happier if the woman would be childless. Because he wants the woman, not the kids. He is just dealing with them, because he has no choice. If that's not worth shaming, then I don't know what is.
@TruthBringer It's worth shaming only in such cases, but not all guys are like this. When you date a single mother, if you want something more serious, you know you'll have to deal with the whole package.
@pleasestopthis Sadly, a lot of men enter a relationship with a single mother obvlivious to what they are signing up for.
@TruthBringer the point is he does have a choice not to date them. I have no idea who that is, but it kind of weeds out bad guys if you are selective, you get rid of selfish people or people that don’t want a child at all. Some people, it’s harder to spot those traits till later and you have already wasted time.
@likelyOK Not saying you're wrong, but I'm honestly having a hard time figuring out what you've said has to do with what I'm saying.
I just read your name and it cracked me up 😂😂 please stop this, was that in response to something?
@likelyOK No I'm a bit confused tbh. But that could be because it's late and I'm not 100% in my concentration. And I'm glad my nickname made you laugh, I picked it for a reason
I guess you did not comprehend the part where he said "he doesn't value himself as a man"a lot of men who date single mothers dont actually do it because they want to raise the kids out of the goodness of their heart. they just do because they are pussywhipped with no standards and feel like its the only way to get in that single mother's pants
@CasaNorba 100% correct!
@TruthBringer that was suppose to be about her name
@CasaNorba or maybe bc they are not selfish or they make enough money it is non issue. I guess there must be some real luck” on my side that these taller good looking men with there shit together have been “ willing to take the risk” on me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@likelyOK Oh damn no wonder I was confused I didn't even notice that HAHAH
We aren't banks, that is for sure 😁😁😁Thank you for pointing that out.
Sure! I don’t wanna sound misogynistic but it’s unfair to make another man provide for children of some other man because of their mother. She should be a good mom for her kids in early years and dating other men won’t help. And those men are in tough position as it makes them wonder is the woman with them just to fund her and the offspring. So in conclusion it’s not fair for the new man and children to date around... besides why did her children’s father leave without consequences? Except for violence cases, then I understand
@hellohruu Thank you! Seeing a woman on this website with a good head on her shoulders like yourself is a breath of fresh air! And of course you don't sound misogynistic. Like you said, men aren't banks. And those women who support the idea of men needing to step up for single mothers only see men as a tool for his resources. If anything, it's these type of women who think men should step up for kids not their own who are misandrists.
Exactly. Talking about making some (poor) choices. It's only fair to not want to date single mothers.
At 19 you are smarter than some 30+ year olds. Bravo.
I agree with you at some point. Do you also think like that about single dads? I mean if the genders were reversed, would you als say something similar like this? I have the feeling you would be called feminazi if the genders were reversed. 😅
"beside why did her chiodren's father leave without consequences. Except for violence cases.." what do you exactly mean here? You dont only leave because of domestic violence but also because of cheating/psychological violence etc. I am sorry if i misunderstand you
That’s why you get a job 🤪 I don’t need no damn man to give me money.
@Moooch Like a normal human being 🤪🤪🤪 😁😁😁
Yes I meant any kind of violence. No, a single father should dedicate himself to children and not look for women.
I am 33 years old and I have met tens of thousands of people and you're the first female I've ever seen or even heard of who doesn't think that all men are nothing but worthless slaves to women's needs and desires. How the fuck did you break the conditioning? Because every other fucking woman on Earth is FULLY brainwashed.
I mean men are people too and they have feelings. And they don’t deserve to be treated like doormat. If a woman treats you like her money resource only it means she doesn’t like you/isn’t into you and is manipulating and that doesn’t help anyone. I wish people had honest intentions but we live in a society
@hellohruu You have a good head on your shoulders. You are an example of what a good woman is. You have my compliments
Thank you @TruthBringer, I appreciate it 😊
Downvote me all you want, IM RIGHT
Being a SIMP is something to be ashamed of.
@hi_it_is_me123 Yes, if the kids are adults that is different.
@hi_it_is_me123 Don't even start with "women who were abused"... just don't. Women do AT LEAST as much abuse as men do, at least. "Abuse" is the battle cry of women who's man refuses to be their man slave, every day, all day. Women feel so entitled they think not getting everything they want is "abuse", fucking ridiculous.
@TruthBringer as @hi_it_is_me said you can't control who fall for. Plus some men actually do NOT mind dealing with those kids and they definitely don't date single moms because they consider them 'easy'. Also who the hell are you to say what and what isn't abuse or call another user that you don't know a sociopath?
@hi_it_is_me123 Ironic you talk about shaming tactics since all you do is use ad hominems in your arguments. You have to learn what a sexist and "misogynist" is before you assign that label to people. I've plenty of women I agree with and who support my views. If what you say is correct, then I wonder why half of my followers are women and I manage to have great conversations with them. You simply call people "incel", "sexist", "misogynist" when people stand up for men's rights. And I'm not spamming you. I'm reacting to other people. And the reason why people call you "feminazi" is because of your bias in favor of women and not thinking how men are experiencing things. So when men say they don't want to date single mothers, for example, you go bat shit crazy. Even though that is THEIR freedom and right to do so. You'd be surprised how many times I called out fake men who don't have the best interest of women on their minds. But anyone who doesn't agree with YOU 'must' be a "woman hater". Suuuuuure.
@hi_it_is_me123 Didn't even bother read your rant. Thanks for proving my point once again. Enjoy your day, love <3
Nothing but a nonsense/rant again. But thank you for your reply, although you are unstable person, it is nice thst you reply in a nice way. 😊😍