Are men ok to date women who are single mothers?

[Anonymous]

If you had a strong connection with a woman but she had children and you didn’t. Would you want a relationship with her? Or anyone women who has or is in a relationship with a guy who has no children?

[UniquelyBasic]

It really depends on where I am in my life. If I was older, like mid to late 30s and I meet someone then sure but as of right now I would pass because Im undecided on children in general. Im not totally against it but things would have to line up.

[Asker]

Yeah sure. So this guy I like is in his late 30s, no kids and not married. I’m also in my late 30s

[Kaptin]

From my point of view, it really depends on if they wanted children at all. Some guys do it and get used to it quick, no problem. But these days, it's a big commitment, almost like moving in together. My advice to single mothers would be to take it easy on the guy and don't expect him to become a father too quickly.

[Quackthulu2]

The ones who have completely given up on themselves are.

[Asker]

So only men who have given up on themselves happy to date single mothers?

[Phoenix98]

I have no desire to be with someone who's a single mother for a variety of reasons.

1# I don't want the kid to get attached to me because if something went wrong or things didn't work out it'd hurt the kid and or make things difficult for the biological father.

2# I don't want to get in the way of the biological father if he's present and involved that's not my place and it causes unnecessary drama on both ends.

To name a few.

[Fireguy17]

Sure, the biggest obstacle is how the parents get along with each other.
Are they constantly fighting, using the kids as pawns, or do they get along ok.
All of the drama is really not worth it for me, other than that yes, I have dated and have had a serious relationship with 2 women that have kids.

[UncleBilll]

I love dating single moms, knowing I am also including her kids on the dates as well most times. They are very loving, have nice breasts, and love sex, and swallow.

[Berethor]

Many men don't and it's a big turn-off to me, single moms are bringing too much baggage.

[mark000h]

Not a chance. I won't raise another man's children. I want my own.

[LiamJHayden]

It depends. A self-sufficient widow is completely different from a never-married woman who is on assistance due to her four kids from four different daddies.

[Anonymous]

I've had sexual relationships with them, but that's it. I'm not interested in helping to raise her kid.
Some men are into that though

[genericname85]

I'm not a spokes person for men. But I'm a man and i don't date single moms.

[genericname85]

Also i would not date a girl who's willing to date me while being in a relationship. That's a hard pass red flag.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

There are plenty in both sides of that, that would. I am not one of them.

[DarkLegacy]

I answered this before and i say no again.

[zagor]

Sure, as long as it's not HIS mother.

[Hellraiser1984]

I have no problem with it.

[Heterosketero]

I would and I have.