Is it true that men love to date single moms?

[Anonymous]

[Skinhead-1979]

With being a Mother comes a fair bit of experience and maturity; that's what I am looking for in a partner.

I am not specifically drawn to Single Mums, but yeah... A Single Mum certainly stands a chance with me

After all, the Girl whom I got to call my Daughter is not my Biological Daughter: I have raised her since she was the age of 1... Sad thing: due to her Mother, I currently do not have contact with her nor my own Son. My Daughter is 16 now (My son is 14).

Regardless of where my Daughter and I end up; regardless of whether we will ever have contact again... She will ALWAYS be me Daughter; I will always love her and I am very proud of her.

Just as a reinforcement of that, I have her name tattooed on my left Forearm

(My son's name is on my right Forearm)

I could fall in love with a Single Mum again; once I am ready for a relationship again. I do not see myself as relationship material at the moment and I expect it'll stay like to for the unforeseeable future,

[Anonymous]

Not really. It’s too much drama. No we’re not immature for having those preferences either like someone pointed out. Amazing how women think they can tell a man he’s immature if he doesn’t a date single mothers or date women w a huge boy count or he’s not a man. That only real men would date those type of women. Imagine if men went around saying real women would be in the kitchen making us men sandwiches lol I guess these women who make comments like that had a nut sack at one time cause they always seem to know that only real me would accept their degenerate behavior. When ever women say, “only real men,” it’s usually something she did wrong but won’t accept responsibility for it. So they try to gas light men, put this on men that it’s us who has the problem. That were in the wrong. But no I’d prefer not to date single moms. Like I said too much drama a lot of times. Way too much to deal w. He’s better off meeting someone w out kids so they have more time to be young, to live life w out going into an instant family situation.

[Crimsyjo]

Nowadays there is only "sex" or "relationship ". Men love sex with single mums as, like many have said, find them easy. But relationship? in my opinion most men avoid because they don't want someone's baggage and responsibility and want a woman who will bare their own children.

However some men just do fall in love and although not ideal they make the sacrifice of accepting the child/children that come with her.

[Asker]

Is this more of an internet thing or does this apply to real life?

[Crimsyjo]

In real life a guy is more likely to know the woman and appreciate her without even knowing about the kids or seeing that side of her. Online... there is no emotional connection so a man can make a snap decision of nope, won't invest emotionally and yep, she's hot enough to pursue for sex. It's like if you have a deal breaker. Say... you won't date a man without a job. Online u can just go nope nope nope nope through hundreds of guys based on that one fact without needing to know what valid reason he might have or what a great guy he might be. If it's just sex tho? Does it matter? And then... if u meet a nice guy in real life. Really like him. Then he says he hasn't a job and explains what happened.. your more likely to let your go of your deal breaker. Make sense?

[Zena_lin]

Honestly, it's a mixed bag. Some guys are totally cool with it and even find it attractive because it shows you're responsible and nurturing. Others might shy away because they’re not ready for the added responsibility. It really depends on the guy and what he's looking for. But hey, if he's the right one, he'll love you and your kiddo just the same! 💖👩‍👦

[MasterKS]

@Zena_lin spot on!

[Finchie40]

Just depends on his preferences and where he is in life , when I was younger before I had kids , I wouldn't date a girl that had kids , I might have sex with her , but not date her , cuz I wanted a girl that didn’t have kids , As I got older and had kids of my own , I realized it didn’t really bother me anymore that she had kids cuz I had kids as well now that my kids are older , I don’t want a girl that has little kids , I can’t see myself starting over raising little ones , I prefer to meet a girl that wants to spoil each other and travel the world that isn’t tied down to raising children if they are older that’s fine with me , but if they are still little then her and I wouldn’t be good for each other , I love kids don’t get me wrong , I just can’t see myself starting over

[Avicenna]

Most men don't want to date them- single moms come with a lot of financial and emotional baggage AND chaos.

[Asker]

False

[Avicenna]

Keep deluding yourself. Everyone knows it's true.

[Asker]

Its only true to people that live on the internet and don't go outside enough

[Avicenna]

LOL... you're not in reality. Just because some men have to settle for single moms (who also have to settle for these guys) doesn't mean that men "love" to date them.

[Asker]

So if a 6'0 tall girl that looks like a model and is very attractive will have to settle or someone will settle for her because she has a kid?

[Avicenna]

Compared to the 6' childless woman who looks like a model, it would be settling. And that is what you keep on ignoring- the fact that the woman with the kid (s) aren't something unique- there are childless women who share the same characteristics.

Now, a hot single mom will get a guy, but most aren't hot. And the 6' hot single mom who is a real outlier will get a guy even if she has a kid, but she won't get as good a guy as she would if she were childless.

[Asker]

Who's to say she won't get a guy that is good as she would if she was childless? I don't think you could speak for every guy because I'm sure every guy doesn't feel the same way you do about single mothers. Why can't a single mother go out and find someone who has money and their life together and be happy?

[Avicenna]

Anyone can do the best they can for themselves. When it comes to relationships, that doesn't mean it's a good idea for the other party. The kind of guy she wants the most will have lots of options and doesn't need to date a single mom- he can date the hot childless woman.

Again, the hot 6' woman is not an average woman, much less an average single mom.

[Avicenna]

Incidentally, most single moms realize that they aren't not guys' first choice. The delusional ones think that it is irrelevant they have a kid or kids.

[Avicenna]

* are not

[Asker]

If you look online you see plenty of scenarios where a single mom gets together with a single dad and the relationship flourishes. They're making a lot of money and are happy together.

[Asker]

At 27 will the single mom still have fewer options because of the kid (s)?

[Asker]

Are single moms who raise their standards delusional?

[Avicenna]

I am sure you can find some examples, but they are the minority of experiences for single moms.
The younger the single mom, the better her chances of finding the guy she wants.
Some standards need to be high- the guy can't have a criminal record, be a good role model and needs to get along with the kid (s). Others should not necessarily be, like looks and income.

[OlderAndWiser]

I have dated single moms with kids but many guys don't ("why should I date a woman who has kids from another guy when there are so many single women who don't have any kids?")

[DishLady]

Date/Flirt with? Yes. We have nice curves. ;)

Commit To? It takes a real man to commit to a single mom. That's all I'm going to say.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I have spent nearly a half century on this planet and never heard that said honestly. When it's "code word" for "stippers" it's still not so much "date" as "sleep with" and even then it's a stretch.

[Nikki1989]

The immature ones are not interested in single moms, they struggle to even look after themselves.

[itsannalee]

Everyone is different.


But most men don’t want to date s woman with kids coz the financial problem. And don’t want to take responsibility of other man’s kid.

[Berethor]

Desperate men, single moms are bottom of the barrel, they bring a lot of baggage.

[Asker]

If they bring a lot of baggage why do men in real life date them?

[Berethor]

I aleady said that those are desperate men, a single mom is never the first choice.

[Asker]

That is an insane generalization. Are single fathers desperate? As you get older the dating pool is filled with single mothers so are those guys desperate as well?

[Berethor]

Might as well said that the dating pool getting filled with crap, why Leonardo Dicaprio date only young women? because their looks, but also because they not single moms.

www.standard.co.uk/.../...den-polani-a3991686.html

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't know where you heard that but for a majority I don't think single moms are the first choice

[Asker]

If they aren't any guys first choice for the most part why are single mothers rarely single?

[Pohjolan]

You do realise that a single mother who isn't single is a oxymoron?

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't think you realize the definition of a single mother, a single mother is single, if they aren't then they aren't single mothers and usually single motherhood happens because of their poor choice in men, single mothers that still have a chance for the most part still are attractive but normally are dated for the wrong reasons

[Asker]

I phrased what I said wrongly. What I meant was women who are single moms are highly sought after by guys. Guys aren't deterred because she is a single mom.

When you say single mothers that are attractive are dated for the wrong reasons, what do you mean?

[ChicoFromThe305]

I mean it's feeding more into lust than it's feeding into any form of love, usually these men have fetishes or have a form of attraction that normally the intentions aren't pure, a single mother might not have huge complications when it comes to dates themselves but that doesn't really matter much if the person doesn't qualify now does it, I think it's much harder to find that guy that has his own heart in mind, her heart, feelings and health in mind and her child's (not his biological child) heart, feelings and health in mind, the facts are that a man can't love her and not love her child, a mother will look for someone that will love her and accept and love her child as well and in today's world it's not so easy to find because in today's day not all men are okay with accepting a woman that has had a child with someone else (myself included) personally for me i just dont think its fair because I dont have any sexual experience and even tho i know its not meant this way, i can't just put aside the thought that this woman had a whole life with another guy, had a child and when the guy showed his true colors and threw her away I'm left with the broken part of the situation and I believe any guy that isn't desperate and has boundaries wouldn't want that for themselves, single women are sexualized for the most part and it takes a man with a very good heart and no jealous traits to accept a single mom for a proper relationship, and its a terrible situation cause these women should have love and deserve it, same with their children but it shouldve been the father of the child and they dug that hole when they chose to avoid the signs that most likely showed at some point.

[Asker]

I think your opinion is skewed because you are young. Once you get older like late 20s or 30s single mothers are way common so you most likely have to accept it

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nah I'm talking to a virgin woman rn and she's my age, I don't believe I will need to go for a single mother, I kept myself clean for a woman and I don't doubt God will do me right with a good woman that kept herself clean for a man which I've realized there's more women that do it by choice than there is men and I think in the long run this will be an advantage Ill have, I've kept myself clean for a woman, I think since I'm pure even when I'm in my late 20s I won't have an issue getting a virgin woman in her early 20s, there's actually a lot of leverage for me because virgin women will for the most part be in their 20s and the 20s is actually a good age range to have children for women and men don't have seed defects until the old ages so there's a lot of room when it comes to time for me, don't get me wrong if I do reach the desperate times if settle for a single mother but those chances seem low mostly in today's day where men are showing their opinions to women that sleep around and I've noticed it's helped virgin women come to light because virgin women are less ashamed and are embracing their virginity more and that only motivates more women to keep their virginity, the single woman would need to have a very beautiful personality to change my mind at such a young age bit it works out tho cause be foreal what single mother wants to rely on a young man like me, lets be realistic I don't know anything about parenthood lol

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would date a single mom with kids.

[In_Trance]

Some do but not all

[Cheerfull009]

Single moms are needy, they need partner and financial support

[AnnaKlugg]

Everyone loves a milf

[dudegreat91]

Yeah sometimes, the sex is good

[Asker]

The sex is the only reason guys will date them?

[dudegreat91]

One of the major reason. But ultimately it comes down to the person. If her personality is pleasing then the guy would want something long term. I was thinking about dating a single mother some time back, but didn't want to complicate things

[moneymagnet24]

Yes they are best easy catch...

[Asker]

So guys only date them because they are easy?

[Anonymous]

Yes I do. Especially if she a milf

[gorydetails]

The opposite is true.

[jahaims]

Fuck and use them. Not taken seriously

[Sharkstealth]

Men love to fuck single moms.

[MasterKS]

Yes, they are the easy one!

[Asker]

Only if they like you

[MasterKS]

@asker i had some good experience with them so i know how it works!

[Asker]

Can you elaborate?

[MasterKS]

@asker here? No if you want my pm is on! talk there in detail!

[Asker]

I followed you

[Twalli]

Most of us actually don't

[Luckycharms12]

Some times definitely depends on person

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Not True!

[DrPepper12]

No. Next question.

[thecosmos]

To me, it isn't

[Asker]

You're young that's why. Once you get older I guarantee that will change

[thecosmos]

I don't think so. This is contrary my culture

[war_daddy]

lmfao no

[Asker]

You need to get off the internet because in real life they do

[war_daddy]

losers maybe

[Asker]

Not true. Guys with money and status date single moms

[war_daddy]

https://9gag.com/gag/aGE7Ng7
lol yeah right

[kareka]

Yes lol

[Asker]

Why do they in your opinion?

[kareka]

I do love them..
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