Will you keep dating this guy?

[Anonymous]

I like a guy and he likes me too. One day while talking to his parents about me, he told them about my past traumas. I don't know what took them, they disagreed about our relationship and imposed on my boyfriend to stop seeing me. Despite my boyfriend's objection, they hired a lawyer to prosecute me and imposed on him to quit his job and work in the family business as punishment. luckily for me the policeman refused to file a case against me. If all of this happened to you, would you keep dating this guy?

[LazerBean]

That sounds so far fetched in any wester country, but to answer your question, no. I'm not interested in guys with crazy families.

[OlderAndWiser]

In what culture do you live? This sounds absolutely ridiculous to Westerners.

[Asker]

Indian... my boyfriend comes from an aristocrat family... would you still continue the relationship? I am thinking what will happen if i get married to him.
P. S For me also their behavior looks ridicule.

[OlderAndWiser]

It sounds like it is a question which he must answer. However, if he chooses you over his family, you will be happy initially. Eventually, he will miss his family, regret his decision, and perhaps even blame you for being alienated from them. This probably will not end well for you.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO. Sorry that my advice is not more optimistic for you, but I think it is a realistic assessment of what could happen.

[Sparkie460]

With a family like that I would not continue with the relationship.

[Sparkie460]

Thanks for the mho

[lawhawk]

What about your relationship was illegal?

[Asker]

nah we are of same age, he wasn't committed yet

[Guy13]

Oh my….

[Asker]

ikr. would you keep dating this guy if you were in my shoes?