Spending a whole day together with lots of quality time, physical affection, romance, and fun activities.
Example:
She invites me over and greets me with a close hug and an affectionate kiss. She tells me to make myself at home and asks me how I like my pancakes. We make a pancake breakfast together with a side of bacon and eggs. She brews me a cup of coffee, exchanges glances with me, and hands the cup to me with a smile. We sit down and eat together. I compliment her on her cooking and she thanks me. We talk about the hike we’re going on today. And then we set out for the hike. During the hike, we enjoy the scenery being out in nature, breathing in the fresh air, and talking to each other about fun topics and deep topics. We take pictures during the hike, especially where the view is nice. I tell her she looks beautiful and she smiles and gives me a kiss. We banter a bit back and forth. We finish the hike and go get some ice cream together. She clings to my arm and looks up at me fondly while we wait in line. We find a nice place to sit and enjoy our ice cream together as we chat and people watch. I take her by the hand and we browse some small neighborhood shops together. I buy her a small simple gift that she loves. We head back to her place, order some Uber Eats, freshen up, and watch some Netflix together while we eat and then cuddle on the couch together. The suns already down, we switch off the TV, dim the lights and kiss on the couch together. This progresses to some passionate lovemaking followed by freshening up again, showering together, kissing in the shower, and ending the night cuddling with her clinging to me closely. The last words before drifting asleep is telling each other how much we love and appreciate each other and what we mean to each other. We drift asleep and wake up in each other’s arms the next morning. Done.
Practically speaking, a survival scenario out in the wilderness would be perfect. I'd get to know how she acts under pressure when faced with the prospect of no modern amenities. Her flaws/strengths will be revealed really quickly! Lol
But in a casual dating setting, maybe just a relaxing starry night sky picnic next to a campfire where we can just talk about our life, deep things and just get to know each other better. :D
Would be nice if a woman just planned and paid for something on her own, without my involvement. Something that she knows I like. Doesn't have to be expensive or crazy. I'm so used to having to do that stuff, that it would be nice if she did once in a while.
In my experience, most women don't ever do this shit. They expect all this romance, gifts, planning, etc... just because. But then they never return the favor. And even when they do, it has to be something that they also like, or it's used as some sort of example as the one time they did some shit for you. Just give a man a day all for him, with no strings attached, and he will be happy. Seems pretty simple to me, I have to do that shit all the time with women I date.
Cook for him, let him play video games all night, go out and get drunk together (you get the uber, and pay), Take him to his favorite sporting event, most guys have pretty blatant hobbies and interests that would be easy to buy/plan for if you pay attention.
I had a great first date some years ago. Just arranged a coffee, we talked for hours till we were thrown out as they closed. I suggested we could go see a movie (not a regular first date thing but I knew she wouldn't have any other time to see this specific film), after the movie we went for dinner. I dropped her home after, got invited in for a coffee (it was only a hot drink). We still chatted till eventually I left. From a quick coffee to 9 or 10 hours and no awkwardness. A good date is anything you can do to learn more about them and you leave feeling more comfortable with them
I just like being with someone, we can be walking or sitting and talking. I like hearing what/how a person thinks. Also some food of some kind, but not a busy restaurant or anything really expensive. Like if I was invited to her place and we just did deep cleaning and chilling, that would be nice to me. Doing something that I find satisfying and feeling helpful is really good.
we took a stroll down Southstreet a little before sunset. stopped in the Itallian deli and picked up lunch meat, bread, dijon and a candle. as the sun set we crossed the southstreet bridge to walk along Delaware ave. there was a fancy restaurant with a back patio on the river that was closed for the fall. we snuck past security and sat on the back patio, lit the candle and ate sandwiches with the stuff we bought at the deli amd snuggled until it got to chilly. then we went back home, watched The Count of Monte Cristo and she gave me head and swallowed.
First date: coffee -> lunch -walk in the park - Many dates later A summer day that I can introduce her to the wonders of magnet fishing and we could travel across the state exploring and hunting for treasure. Honestly the only perfect part about that day is if she were actually excited about the activity.
I like to do active stuff. Restaurants and coffee shops are fine for first dates but hiking, biking, golf, a sports game, a shooting range, a zoo, or really anything that keeps stuff moving and not solely revolving around bullsh*tting about yourselves is pretty great. Most guys really aren't picky but things that equate to just sitting around and talking get old fast.
Well this one looks fun. I like to walk talk and do activities each of us likes to do. And have friends with us to keep it honest, no pretense. I went to Six Flags with a girl and a mass of friends. I got to know so much about her. She was a diamond.
Hit it off and belly up to the bar too late somewhere. And not because I’m trying to hookup. I don’t really like hooking up on first dates. I’m don’t want either one of us getting too invested. The most hooking up on first dates I do is with people I don’t hit it off with but have a level of attraction to.
Blowjob greeting, cook dinner then after dinner blowjob, and clean my condo in maid outfit capped off with another blowjob. Then netflix and sex while drinking and getting high like teenagers. Then leave and not have forced conversation until next date.
Take me swimming in a beautiful lake and talk with me as we hold hands and lay on our backs floating on the water.. have a picnic too as we dry off later.
Then as the sun sinks into the horizon we can skinny dip to add sexual tension and then fall asleep in each other's arms under the starlight.
I'm weird. I'd rather meet for some coffee days prior. Then my place days later while I BBQ and we chat while the food is grilling. Play a simple game. Watch a movie, preferably something funny or scary. Cuddle up on the couch or layed up. Fishing or working out is also nice. If she's a gamer... even better.
Well this may seem smart alicy and condescendin but anything non platonic between men and women is a date and most men are pretty simple to the point that we can actually makes dates right there at home if ya keep that in mind about men itll actually help ya go far with us generally
That's a very good question i haven't really given it a thought through out all the dates I've been on i always asked my date what we should do, The perfect date for me would probably to do something crazy like skydiving or shark cage diving anything adventurous l
I used to order for my mother because she didn’t understand the menu and what to order. I would hope that was the case in your question. That maybe she didn’t know what the items on the menu were and he knew what she liked!
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