I lied to my crush that I like my ex in order to make him jealous. How do I confess to my crush after that?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

You lied and once your beloved discovers that, he will never again trust you. This is the beginning of the end for you and him.

[Asker]

Ok I agree. Sooo, can I tell him that I just dont like my ex anymore? Any ideas to fix the situation?

[OlderAndWiser]

First you tell him that you like your ex and then you tell him that you don't like your ex. That just confirms that you are a liar.

Some things can't be undone. Losing the trust of another person is like losing your virginity; when it's gone, you can't get it back.

Learn a lesson from this experience. Playing these kind of games is dishonest and disrespectful. This is not how mature adults have relationships.

[Asker]

You are right

[OlderAndWiser]

You COULD go to the guy and confess that you talked about liking your ex because you wanted to make him jealous, you were feeling insecure and were afraid that you needed to do something to secure his attention, and you now realize how wrong it was to do that. MAYBE he would listen and give you another chance.

[fred_durst]

just tell him exactly like your question title above
good people always appreciate honesty even it is bitter

[Asker]

I loved that! I think thats what Im gonna do. Thank you!❤️

[spartan55]

You just tell him. I'm pretty sure you won't do that though.

[Asker]

I dont really have a problem

[spartan55]

Just that you're a liar.

[Asker]

Okay you are right

[Pyrofox]

Why the hell would you make such a lie its now only gonna burn you later. >.>

[Asker]

I know...😓

[Avicenna]

You’ve probably messed things up, bug tell him as soon as possible that you like only your crush

[Asker]

Can I just show it to him without telling him clearly?

[Avicenna]

No, that will just make things worse. Your only chance is to communicate clearly and unambiguously now.

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[HazyDaze63]

Confess and hope he understands your immaturity. Do yourself a favor and don't play stupid mind games with people.

[danny8325]

Just tell him the truth. If you are hot, he will bang you and probably date you; but most likely won't be able to trust you.

[Guy13]

Busted…. I would be out…