Is my boyfriend a weird guy. Please help he told me today I’m gonna r@pe him as a joke?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has been a weird guy towards other girls in the past ( I saw his messaging his messages were weird and kept calling other girls he never dated mommy and other weird stuff) it was before we started dating so I didn’t care but I felt weirded out still In dating someone like him. Anyways today he made a joke about me being his high school bully it was funny at first than he said “your gonna r@pe me 🧍” I told him that joke wasn’t ok I’m a victim myself and that isn’t cool, he apologized and said sorry and said he wouldn’t say it again but I told him it’s basic common sense that nobody likes to joke around like that ( unless ur a weird guy and got a fetish for that disgusting stuff) I’m kinda uncomfortable because of what he said I know people would be calling me sensetive but I cannot be the only one who thinks that’s weird…. Should I break up with him?

[Markm3212]

i think that people struggle to express themselves and that is why we get questions like this come up. have seen it asked by a few women that have this thought that they want to be r@ped. i normally put it down to the fact that they want to be dominated. and in your case i think that he wants to be dominated. you state that he called others mummy etc would sort of insinuate that he is a little or a sub in BDSM terms?

[DarkWinterNights]

Some people like dark humor. If that bothers you just let him know as you did that you don’t appreciate those jokes. It also sounds like he’s a little immature, but if he’s around 18-24 it’s not unusual.

[fred_durst]

time to dump weird guy and get new normal boyfriend

[1GoldTwins]

That is indeed a very weird thing to say.

[Drumlin2001]

Yeah. Move on.