Is the guy i’m talking to being a little strange?

[Anonymous]

- he saw me make a post about my favorite drink & the next day we hung out he bought a mini pack of some.
- I made a joke about a song he played saying it was about me & then the next day he said listen to this love song i’ve had it on my mind i’m not sure why.
- My friends said he started posting on his instagram story again right after i follower him as a friend, after not posting for months.

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guys what he’s doing is amazing i’ve just been through some creepy stuff with another guy a year ago to where my roommate had to call the cops and i want to be very cautious. i knew this guy was being sweet. i adore it actually. I didn’t even knew to ask this question but hey i have every right to be careful

[Oliverlogan263]

Okay, I get what you're saying - some of those things your guy friend is doing do seem a little strange and potentially a bit obsessive. Let's break it down:

- The fact that he went out and bought your favorite drink after just seeing you mention it once is kind of creepy. That's a really specific detail to pick up on and then act on so quickly. Kinda makes it seem like he's hyper-focused on you.

- And then the love song thing right after you joked about a song being about you? That's just weird. Feels like he's trying way too hard to drop hints or be romantic, even though you were just joking around.

- And the Instagram thing - the timing of him suddenly posting again right after you followed him is definitely suspect. It's like he's trying to get your attention or show off for you.

Overall, it does seem like this guy is being a little too intense and almost obsessive about you. The level of attention to detail and weird romantic gestures are red flags. It makes me worry he might be developing an unhealthy fixation.

I'd really encourage you to be cautious here. Keep an eye out for any other strange behavior, and make sure you set clear boundaries with him. Don't be afraid to pump the brakes if he keeps acting in ways that make you uncomfortable. Your safety and comfort have to come first, you feel me?

Just trust your gut on this one, girl. If something feels off, it probably is. Better to be safe than sorry. Hopefully he's just a well-meaning but socially awkward dude, but don't ignore those warning signs. Take care of yourself!

[Asker]

Thank you so much!

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re very welcome

[AnonAndrew]

He doesn't sound strange at all to me, just sounds like he likes you. I don't think it's anywhere near crossing the line into obsession or stalking or anything like that.

[DishLady]

You're too old for this nonsense... WHY are you talking to him? He's clearly thinking you're interested in him. If you're not, then leave him alone.

[Asker]

i am interested i’ve had very strange stuff happen to me i would never play with someone’s feelings

[Anonymous]

That is both weird and creepy.

[Asker]

LOL why do you think so? its sorta cute but i have a feeling its strange also.

[Opinion Owner]

That basically means he followed your every move online just to know this about you.

[Asker]

exactly it cute but odd