Is the guy that I’m talking to just playing around?

[Karlynn]

So I get a lot of scam calls right. So one day I get a random call from this guy who asked “Hi is this Kayla”…So I asked who he was and he said his name is Grant and that I called him but I never did. I saw that he lives in South Bend Indiana so I definitely didn’t call him. He said that my number called him and then I realized that a scammer most likely used my number. I explained that and he understood. Anyway so we had a small conversation on the phone afterwards getting to know each other. I told him I lived far from him but he didn’t care. As the days and months go by he would call and text me almost every single day or night just to talk about how our days went and what not…. We both promised each-other that we would meet one day. He told me he was 34 but dude sounds wayyy older then he says like in his 50’s maybe…. and his accent is super strong…. if anything it sounds fake…I asked him to send me a picture but he didn’t. Then I looked up his phone number but it’s under multiple names in South Bend Indiana in multiple locations…and they are mainly women names. I really really like him 🥺🥺.. Maybe I’m just being stupid lol I don't know but what should I do? I opened up to him so much ❤️❤️

[OfMiceandMen]

I would be really careful in this situation. Getting to know someone by text is way different then meeting someday.

If the accent sounds fake... it likely is. If you are pretty certain he's way older than 34, then he's already lying to you.

All those things little fake/lies start adding up to a potential creepo. Even creeps can be charming, that's how they lure people.

[Iron_Man]

Ask him what he wanted and how does he really know you

[CAPLOVE]

He sounds fake. I would not meet up with him. Or if you decide to choose a location in between the two places and bring someone with you.

[Karate_Aaron]

Sounds suspicious... maybe only meet up with him in person in a public setting (and maybe have a friend nearby)?

[In_Trance]

He wants to rail you