Girls are SUPPOSED to have curves!!! My wife was petite and slim when I met her, but we had three children and she gained about 20 pounds with each one and could not lose it. It's a metabolic issue, as confirmed by her doctors. You know what? we've now been married over 50 years and I love her more now than when we started out, and I wouldn't trade her for a busload of fashion models! She has stood by me in good times and bad, through financial problems, health problems, arguments, and I don't know where I'd be without her! So you see, sometimes guys need to grow up a little bit and recognize what's important in life.
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I mean It's an issue of self-respect and respect for your man being in that condition. Of course you came on here to have people blow smoke up your butt and tell you cope. But you know the deal thats why you posted.
Well it’s easy, if you don’t like the way he is approaching the situation, leave him. If you think that his was is motivating, then work with him for a constructive criticism that will help you get back in shape. Personally, I think that if he is not accepting you in your “worse” (is just a new self), they he should get the fuck…everyone deserves to be loved and accepted as they are with or without “flaws”.
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Guys often stick with gals who gain weight, but it is usually over a longer time. You have put on a lot at a young age. You should do what you can to lose most of it, then work to keep most of it off. You looked fabulous in the before picture (the exposed boob helped, lol). Imagine yourself back like that and make it happen.
I tried to follow you but got a message that you either have a private profile (which you obviously do not) or you are no longer active (which is also obviously wrong).Cut back on foods/drinks with high sugar/salt in them. To much sugar in your system turns to fat. To much salt in your system makes you retain water.
Not really able to tell sitting down you're going to appear fatter. You kind of need similar posed pictures.
It is kinda bad, especially since apparently none of the extra mass went to your boobs.
It's bad on your health but it's not his place to get on you about it that is up to you
You're about to lose a boob in both pictures...😳
This is an excuse to show us your boobs
lose weight you are fat
get hotYup its bad🤮 u can clearly see the beer belly🤮
That’s not bad weight
Please go back to pic #1 ASAP
Yes, sorry.
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