I’ve gained weight and the guy I’ve been seeing let’s me know. Here are before and after. Obviously I’m sitting in the after, but is this bad?

[Avadarling]

[Keyboardkat]

Girls are SUPPOSED to have curves!!! My wife was petite and slim when I met her, but we had three children and she gained about 20 pounds with each one and could not lose it. It's a metabolic issue, as confirmed by her doctors. You know what? we've now been married over 50 years and I love her more now than when we started out, and I wouldn't trade her for a busload of fashion models! She has stood by me in good times and bad, through financial problems, health problems, arguments, and I don't know where I'd be without her! So you see, sometimes guys need to grow up a little bit and recognize what's important in life.

[Avadarling]

❤️ I love it!! Thanks 😊

[driven159]

that is what true love is about not weight or looks how tall they are what color of hair big boobs long legs big butts

[Keyboardkat]

@driven159 My wife happens to have big boobs and a big bottom, which I regard as a real bonus, a fringe benefit!

[PatriceONeal]

I mean It's an issue of self-respect and respect for your man being in that condition. Of course you came on here to have people blow smoke up your butt and tell you cope. But you know the deal thats why you posted.

[Avadarling]

Huh? Explain

[Anonymous]

Well it’s easy, if you don’t like the way he is approaching the situation, leave him. If you think that his was is motivating, then work with him for a constructive criticism that will help you get back in shape. Personally, I think that if he is not accepting you in your “worse” (is just a new self), they he should get the fuck…everyone deserves to be loved and accepted as they are with or without “flaws”.

[Avadarling]

Thanks love!!

[Red_Arrow]

Guys often stick with gals who gain weight, but it is usually over a longer time. You have put on a lot at a young age. You should do what you can to lose most of it, then work to keep most of it off. You looked fabulous in the before picture (the exposed boob helped, lol). Imagine yourself back like that and make it happen.
I tried to follow you but got a message that you either have a private profile (which you obviously do not) or you are no longer active (which is also obviously wrong).

[Avadarling]

Thanks sir! I’ll try

[Red_Arrow]

Best of luck to you!

[Avadarling]

Hopefully I don’t gain more!!

[Reaper1985]

Cut back on foods/drinks with high sugar/salt in them. To much sugar in your system turns to fat. To much salt in your system makes you retain water.

[Avadarling]

I’ll try!!

[Reaper1985]

it won't be an instant fix but you'll slowly lose extra weight over time if your active.

[Avadarling]

Yeah. I’d like to lose 30 pounds

[Anonymous]

Not really able to tell sitting down you're going to appear fatter. You kind of need similar posed pictures.

[Avadarling]

Okay!!

[Xoirwinkan]

It is kinda bad, especially since apparently none of the extra mass went to your boobs.

[Avadarling]

Ugh!! Dang

[driven159]

It's bad on your health but it's not his place to get on you about it that is up to you

[Avadarling]

I agree! I need to watch it though

[driven159]

the first photo is so sexy very gorgeous

[Avadarling]

Thanks! It was 30 pounds ago, but it’s good to have goals

[driven159]

yes go for that and most guys don't like skinny girls they are not sexy, but women try to shame women about it woman that are like to 10 to 20 lbs. overweight are just right I like to feel the skin between her highs not bone

[Avadarling]

I agree!

[spartan55]

You're about to lose a boob in both pictures...😳

[Avadarling]

Thanks

[Red_Arrow]

But one of us will be there to catch it. lol

[Gloree]

This is an excuse to show us your boobs

[Avadarling]

Lol you like it girl

[bootieclapper9000]

lose weight you are fat

get hot

[Avadarling]

Lol got it!!

[LimitedBenefits101]

Yup its bad🤮 u can clearly see the beer belly🤮

[Avadarling]

Ugh. It’s been quite a bit too

[LimitedBenefits101]

The gym is calling time to go there

[Avadarling]

Ugh lol
I workout a lot! I’m strong! I just consume way too much lol

[LimitedBenefits101]

stop eating
start fasting

[JohnK123]

That’s not bad weight

[Avadarling]

Thanks!

[JohnK123]

Ya why would u think it is

[Avadarling]

Oh it’s just been quite a bit to gain

[JohnK123]

It’s not bad tho. U still look healthy… maybe a new swim suit lmao to fix the hole or whatever but yeah

[Avadarling]

Yeah one piece for me now

[SpaceGalaxy]

Please go back to pic #1 ASAP

[Avadarling]

I’m going to try. Only a year apart too. I gained so much

[SpaceGalaxy]

Set your mind to it and you will succeed. Please send us a pic of the "new, improved you" by no later than June 28, 2023. Thank you :)

[Avadarling]

Lol hopefully I’m not twice as fat lmfao

[SpaceGalaxy]

LOL Lets keep our fingers crossed and your mouth closed to most foods

[Avadarling]

Lol 🥗

[RavVid]

Yes, sorry.

[Avadarling]

Thanks

[Anonymous]

You Still looking sexy and arousing

[Avadarling]

Thanks

[Opinion Owner]

What's your height and weight now

[Avadarling]

5-6 175 in first picture. Now I’m 215

[Opinion Owner]

You so tall
I am so short
:/
How do you think of short men?

[Avadarling]

Depends

[Opinion Owner]

Depends on