Since I've never struggled with a bad metabolism or weight gain earlier on, therefor I doesn't worry about it. I've always been the skinny person and I can't imagine me getting fatter as I gets older. I'm not eating the healthiest, but not the most unhealthiest either. I've never been into physical exercise, sports or anything like that. Doesn't like dogs either, so I doesn't go for a walk very often either.
If I had a partner, I would prefer them to stay slim and put some effort in staying that way. It's not only about my own perception of beauty, but also personal reasons that I think is perfectly reasonable to justify my preferences. The majority of my family members are overweight and the round shape are their family trade mark, so every time I sees a round person, I think of my family for a weird reason. That doesn't necessarily mean I would break up if I had a partner gaining weight, but I wouldn't want to have sex and my lust would decrease.
Why women have to worry more about gaining weight than men is because of men can afford being more picky in looks, not because of men necessarily being more visual than women. Because of there are naturally more pretty women out there and women often are willingly to put more effort into their own appearance, men have a lot to choose from regardless if they're hot or not. Men aren't expected to put equally much effort in looking good, handsome men are rarer and women are taught to value other qualities, therefor men doesn't need to worry as much about their looks as long they've the other desired qualities.
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Of course they don't. They just become single, lose the weight they knew was unattractive in the first place, get a new man, and call the ex a shallow piece of shit.
When she finds one who doesn't mind, she'll get as fat as she wants
I'm not very scared about gaining weight on its own but I am scared about my body changing after giving birth and all which can easily change my body and it may not look as good as it does now. I'm scared of having any health complications that could affect my body especially, like suppose I got some kind of chronic body pain or hormonal issues that could affect the body internally or my ability to exercise.
Everyone has their bad times, and if I am in a stressful period and gain weight and he decides to leave me, then that's his loss. It doean't mean that I won't work it off, but if he is so shallow that that's the only thing he sees in me, then I dodged a bullet for sure.
It is something I am concerned about but I’m doing my gym routine to hopefully not gain any weight.
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Yes. I'm already chubby and not exactly happy about it. I'm always worried that a guy wount find my body attractice. I try to act confident and not to show it but in my heart I'm always a tiny bit scared to flaunt my body in front of ca ute guy, especailly ifhe is an athlete.
I’m around 56kg rn, and really conscious about gaining weight, but it’s not really because of guys lol.
I'm definitely not where I want to be right now but my boyfriend is still majorly attracted to me. If I continued to gain weight though, exercise/activities and sex would change and that's not good for either of us.
Wow, I haven't seen Jennifer Love Hewitt in a long while, is that how she looks now?
I wouldn't like it myself if I gained a significant amount of weight... plus I’m always worrying that I’m too heavy for them hahahah
I wouldn't want myself if I gained weight 😂 I stay (somewhat) in shape for myself and not for others
I can't say that thought has ever crossed my mind, though I'd be worried about my health and self-esteem going down so I make sure that doesn't happen just for my own wellbeing.
First of all i never gain weight i got amazing metabolism lol second if he is only with me for my looks that he is not type of person i want what after i become old?
Nope! I wouldn’t worry about my do not liking me, I would worry about my health more than anything.
Yes. He always says how sexy he finds my figure so I'm worried that he don't find me sexy anymore when I gain weight.
I’m afraid of being fat in general i already am kinda chubby
Yes because men are very superficial. So are women, but men have a 'holier than thou' when it comes to things like appearance. They dictate a lot about a woman's weight, her shape, breast size, ass size, how much make up we wear, and then have the audacity to say only women care about looks.
They're full of shit.Yes I have a disease that makes me fluctuate in weight I also take medication but I do work out and eat healthy so I hope I never become obese
I'm not a girl, but if my girlfriend had gained weight, I wouldn't mind. I'd still love her.
Simples...Just to calm some girls, if I truly love you, I'll love you no matter how you look, I'll always be there with you.
is that a real photo of JLH? Omg!
If she gets above 20% bodyfat, she is gone.
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