Will still date your partner if they gain weight?

[Taniisokay]

here's a question that I asked my friends about their opinions which was different from mine. I will appreciate if you share your thoughts about it.

Q1: Let's say you found someone and you decided to date. After few months or years they got fat. Would still date them or be with them? If no then why? If yes then why also.

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+1 y

Let's say that they gain 50 pounds+ more like the years into relationship.

[NotTacocaT6969]

Yes.


My husband was a skinny little thing his entire life until he turned 30.


He gained weight and his hair started to thin.


It took a lot of reassurance, but now he’s comfortable knowing I don’t care about the way his body looks.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

If it's just a little bit of unhealthy weight gain it's not a big deal. I'd help them lose the weight and we just do low carb meals, with a once in a while cheat treat. And they could go on my few hours walk with me.

[JHAYES317]

If they stay within a normal weight range sure. But if they become obese, then they’d have to be committed to losing the weight, otherwise I’d probably break up with them if they didn’t demonstrate positive steps towards weight loss

[JonesT10Apr]

yeah I will..

as a couple we both do and be in good shape together

[XXblack88]

It depends on how much weight they put on putting on 5 or 10 pounds isn't a big deal to me however putting on 40 + pounds is if it's not cause by a new drug or muscle growth.

[laly520]

yes would still date em BUT will make em go to gym with me

ain't gonna give up on em just cuz they gained weight

[Billlewis]

Not only will I continue to date her, I'll usually become even more interested in her if she's gained a lot of weight.

[Kelly6]

@taniisokay will still date, but tell them to lose weight and exsercise if they don’t listen then leave.

that’s a red flag that they don’t listen and don’t care about you

[Anonymous]

We'll exercise together 🤷‍♀️

[Abdulwahh]

Depends and you?

[LavLavLuv]

Yes :)