Does it make sense why I lack confidence?

[Anonymous]

Women reject me a lot.
Which doesn’t make sense as I’m tall, polite and fit. I also have everything else going for me. I’m super lucky

I have brown skin too which is why, women want white features.

Lately I’ve sort of just been giving up on finding a girlfriend.

Makes sense

Doesn’t make sense

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You can have everything but nothing at all

[TommyMountainFigure]

So you get turned down a lot. I could write a book on it.. I believe you make your own confidence..

It's not getting turned down that wrecks your confidence, it's how you you respond to getting turned down which can have an adverse effect!

Let me explain:-

If you sulk or look miserable yes that's going to weigh you down, but you laugh and share a witty response, you can enjoy it and have fun with it. It needn't be demoralising. On the contrary, making someone laugh actually feels like a win!

[BonzoInBitburg]

You're not going to find a decent girlfriend without confidence so work on that first. You'll gain confidence by learning what women are actually attracted to and clearly you don't know. You don't need to be tall, good-looking and make 6 figures to attract a beautiful woman. Once you figure it out you'll understand how ugly guys date gorgeous women

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I don't understand why your skin color has anything to do with it. It's generally not something I would even care about and I'm not sure how many women would care about that either.

Maybe you have too much confidence in other traits that you are blowing out of proportion or maybe your approach to women is wrong as if saying your appearance should be enough to attract a woman.

[NetherlandsNar]

That's weird.
Why do you think you are getting rejected

[Avicenna]

Confidence has to come from within, via validation from others.

[Sups111]

You def do want to experience a female orgasm. Just too envious to admit it

[Avicenna]

@Sups111: LMAO, sure, you know exactly what goes through everyone else's head...

[Sups111]

I do, only jealous and envious men would say “no” to that question. So far everyone else said yes

[Avicenna]

@Sups111: You're not very credible- why go anonymous to ask that question, delete my response, then go on another thread to stalk me? You're full of shit.

[CrabCakes11]

Your lousy attitude is the reason you’re not confident

[jahaims]

You lack confidence because you get your value from others opinions instead of from who you are as a person.

[In_Trance]

Makes no sense

[Kingofkings1992]

Stfu troll