How to have confidence?

[Anonymous]

How can someone have/build confidence when they are inadequate? A lot of women do not want to date me because of my height and they even make fun me, sayings things like I will never find a women because of my height. How can I have confidence when women don’t think I’m attractive?

[Billlewis]

I'm going to go against the collective viewpoint of the assembled throng and say that if you genuinely believe you're inadequate, you've already taken a big step forward, because a guy who most women think is inadequate can be a highly sought after prize.

Think about it -- if you adopt the approach that submissive guys are often most comfortable with (and your dating strategy is very similar to my own), in which you bill yourself as a lower tier beta male, but that you're willing to work extremely hard to compensate for your inadequacies, I think you'll be amazed by how many women are eager to meet you. You're on the right track, so keep trying. Good luck!

[inhua]

forget all the political correctness being fed to you

read the book on my profile pic and not give a fuck about their shallowness

if they hate you more for not seeking their approval and validation, they can go kick rocks. while it's easier than done you have to embrace being a villain and it won't be pretty but necessary

[_Maya_]

You can't have confidence and call yourself inadequate. That is the first step is to change your mindset. Next step is to forget the height nonsense. Sure there will be girls that only want to date taller guys. That does not mean we all want that. I actually prefer someone close to my own height. I don't know why but I gravitate towards that type of person in guys and girls. In fact my most recent ex was about an inch shorter than me. It was not a problem at all.

[Peter_Penetrator]

Hey. You liked a reply l made on a post. I saw on your profile you don’t like unsolicited DM’s. Would you be willing to DM me l could really use some advice.

[_Maya_]

@Peter_Penetrator for what advice?

[Peter_Penetrator]

It is an age gap crush situation.

[Anonymous]

There are many groups and organizations for this where you work with lots of other people.

Toastmasters, EST, large contemporary churches

https://www.meetup.com/topics/confidence-building/

Books

https://bookshop.org/lists/best-books-on-confidence-self-esteem

You can read a lot of them for free on https://archive.org/details/inlibrary or https://www.scribd.com/

[pink_blah]

Start with positive self talk. And stop listening to what everyone says about you. Have the mindset (in this context) that no ones opinion matters other than yours 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[provokeesmokee]

Therapy.

You need therapy. Because your attractiveness doesn't matter for confidence, and there's too many limiting beliefs you hold for randos on the internet to fix.

[Sour-rose]

You gotta find out what is your problem within you. If you can fix the problem from inside, you will be confident. I don't know your life but that's how I got confident. Soo that's a start

[WhitneySnow]

Talk to a woman who really likes you despite your height. Al Pacino a famous actor from olden times was really short and women loved him.

[Iron_Man]

Learn to be a good skilled Talker but back it up your statements, Also, you better hit the gym and get pumped up.

[Nikki1989]

Start by, stop being so immature.