Should I offer to pay for the dates when he makes 3 times more than me?

[Anonymous]

I just feel so embarrassed paying for the date in the restaurants. The waitress always hand the guy bill.

[Lliam]

No. You should not date a guy like that who doesn't automatically pay. He has a negative attitude toward women and is not a gentleman.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

At best, you should either split the bill or take turns paying. It shouldn't ever fall on just one person to always cover the bill no matter how much they make.

[Dinklex3]

If you want.

Why do you feel embarrassed? Just say “today’s on me!” and take the bill.

[jahaims]

You can offer to split it or pick up the tab on a cheaper date if you worry about it

[DishLady]

To be polite, yes, of course. What he makes shouldn't impact your manners.

[Billlewis]

No, not at all.