Do guys lose interest in you if you gain weight?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

As shallow as it sounds I know for sure that this is true for most men. But I'm not saying ALL but the majority. I want to share that 3 years ago I was really chubby and was 155 going to 160 in freshman and sophomore year. Now a former junior going to senior year I've dropped a lot of weight now weighing 120 and guys have started to talk to me and noticed me all of a sudden. It is really disappointing to see that drastic difference bc of weight but it does apply :/

[LittleSally]

Men get into relationships based on how their partner looks. That's just a fact.
If you gain weight and he thought you were perfect before, he'll lose interest or ad least some of the attraction.
If he likes them a bit chubbier but still found you attractive, then he'll find you even more attractive.
Gaining 20kg, however, is an extreme in either case and no person would be completely ok with it.

[justbanANNAz]

no actually. but i dont have men crawling all over me to begin with anyway lol. i dont mind =]

[indiantramplefetish]

Everyone is different. depends from man to man

Personally for me I like my girls be heavy, cause I like her to sit on my chest while having leisure time. So that I can feel her presence on my heart.

Now... Negative side is you got a man who likes you to be heavy but will you be interested to sit on top of me
by the way you did not mention your weight

[Octavius]

That depends. Unless it was like 15+ pounds the guy probably won't even notice any difference.

[Asker]

I'm 5'2 so is much more noticeable

[Mesonfielde]

Depends on the quantity of weight, and what weight you originally had. People don't like girls that are either too thin or too large.

[nerdybirdy42]

Some do some don't if he really cares he might hint you gotta work out but still stick with you and even help you out or just let things go personally I don'the think I would mind if my future girlfriend would have put on a few pounds and wanted to lose it I would help her out and we lose weight together

[shyguy227]

Honestly yes, I don't mean this in a nasty way to any body but as a guy that tries to look after himself quite a bit that would bother me quite a bit I mean if the girl put on a couple of pounds or lost a couple of pounds that's no bother but I mean if a girl didn't look after herself and really let go and gained a tonnes of weight that would bother me a lot and I would take that as in indicator that she is neglecting her body.

But hey that's just me : )

[DodgersGM]

The truth is that yes, the majority of guys will feel less and less attraction as a woman gains moreweight.

[DodgersGM]

Accidentally submitted this opinion before I was through. LOL

I was also gonna add that there's also some men who might like a little weight gain, but only to a certain point. And then there are others who won't care all that much one way or the other, provided that your weight is somewhere near "average."

Me personally, I have liked girls that were super skinny, as well as some that were pretty chubby. At the end of the day, though, I do want them to be healthy--how could I not, ya know? :)

[Jebblez]

I've never had more attention from the opposite sex as I did when I was 160lbs. Go on with yo bad self!

[kittyd7015]

its da boobs lol

[MissNowhere]

They may, or they may not. Depends on the guy. To some guys weight/body size are more important than to others.

[Dannii]

yea, some guys do. Depends on the kind of gurls they like.

[Ibokan18]

if i really love that girl, it wouldn't bother me. we would hit the gym and after that i would buy her ice cream as reward haha

[ClariceOwen23]

I've lost a lot of weight the last one year and my boyfriend is still with me.

[Anonymous]

They may, they might not but I would think it'd be a shallow reason to lose interest, just like a girl would dump a guy for "not being ready for sex" would be a shallow reason to leave

[Johnny95]

Some guys yes and some guys no

Me i don't care about weight all that much cause i love the person for who they are :)

[Sexualchrist]

The short answer is yes

[hypno-trip]

I think I would if it gets too noticable.

[Iron_Man]

It all depends on the guy

[Anonymous]

It depends on the reason.

[NerdyBubbleGum]

I dont think so...

[kittyd7015]

it depens how much