Does weight matter to guys? Im afraid if I gain weight my boyfriend will loose feelings just because he compliments my body a lot?

[curious_girlfriend76]

[Flunkerdunk]

Does he work out and is he slim?

If so, that might strain the relationship regardless of if it works out or not. One of the biggest fears that I saw as a younger man was when a fine girl got married and then decided once she got the ring, it was time to bloat out because she "locked" her man. I've seen a lot of unhappy guys out there with fat girls. I've also seen a lot of happy men with fat girls, but the girl was usually fat before they got married, lol.

The (general) rule for (most) men and women is this: Women fall in love with what they hear, Men fall in love with what they see. That's why women wear make up and men lie.

[Anonymous]

As much as confidence matters to a woman. If you're kind of fat and you're not confident it's hard for us to be attracted to you. How can we find you attractive if you don't even find you attractive.

[watercolor_lions]

You might be dating someone extremely shallow, or you might be dating someone who's trying to build you up a lot. Why don't you ask him?

[fonduegirl]

He's a prick if he does that. Love your partner's soul, not body shape.

[Anonymous]

Yes. It is our ONE expectation.

Unlike the endless list of check boxes we have to keep checked for you to stay interested.

[Anonymous]

Then focus on staying thin and everything will be just fine.

[In_Trance]

yes of course it does