Am I wrong if I asked this question to my boyfriend ( weight gain question ) ?

[Anonymous]

I been with my boyfriend for 12 years so I assume I can ask or talk to him about anything.
I’m not over weight if anything I’ve always had trouble gaining weight. I’ve always liked my body but I was skinny back then 100 pounds when I meet him. During the years I gain weight to 115 to now 120-125 I’m 5’4 and I’m happy I gain weight and have some meat in my bones. This have came with alil tummy and alil double chin but nothing mayor. My boyfriend knows the weight I’m in im happy but there was this other day where I asked him. “ what would you do or say if I get fat “? And he always seems to get bothered and he says “ well is not going happen or say he wouldn’t care and he also said that I wouldn’t get fat ( which I don’t want hear that ) I get bothered and tell him so… you wouldn’t tell me to lose weight or try motivated me to be healthy? I mean he knows I rather hear the truth than be lied to and if he had to say this I would appreciate that. ( not saying this is the case right now )

so we basically got into a argument and I got upset because I accused him of being fake or that he would just let me let go of myself and he would just stay quiet. I told him I would have rather hear him say that he would be supported and try to motivated me to lose weight. But was asking him this question?

[Billlewis]

Well, first of all, 125 at 5'4" is about as close to perfect as a woman can aspire to, in my opinion. In this situation, I recommend that you implement an ongoing initiative to tie your newfound curve friendly lifestyle to a noticeable increase in the all important intimacy that you share with him. In other words, maybe say something like, 'Wow..

I can't believe how fuckin' horny I've been lately... ever since I started eating more, and puttin' on some cushion, all I can think about is you doin' some pushin''...

[Anonymous]

So, here I am, nose-deep in the rancid tale of someone who's struggled to put on weight and finally reached a not-so-putrid 120-125 pounds. Not exactly the heaviest fish in the market, but hey, we all have our own pungent journeys.

But then comes the question that smells worse than a drain cleaner cocktail - asking the boyfriend what he'd do if the aroma of their body started expanding like a bloated durian fruit. He seems to gag at the thought, dodging the question like it's a pile of bat guano.

What's a smelly lovebird to do when faced with the prospect of hearing the harsh truth about their putrid body changes? Does honesty reek worse than a can of spoiled fish, or is it the only way to clear the air of lingering doubts? Only time will tell in this fetid saga of self-image and stinky relationships.

[FebrezeRelief]

Probably putting too much importance in looks tbh. You're allowed to have some extra lbs, and of course it's possible to do just fine with it in technical terms. But only seeing thin as attractive is the kind of thing I don't get. Some extra curves aren't really bad either lol.