Would you sleep with someone you’re not attracted to? Even when they’re not bad looking?

Question

Good morning beautiful 😍 😂  It will be a big NO for me… 😑  how about you, beautiful 😍 people?

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Accepted Answer

Couldn't do it. She was butt naked in doggystyle and I just couldn't do it. My 🍆 half sleep. 😂

Freyke · Accepted Answer

No that screams regret at dawn.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I need to feel physical attraction and at least some strong emotional connection/affection/bond.

Finchie40 · Answer

No , my penis won’t let me he has a brain of his own even if I am drunk he will say no fucking way don’t be stupid , The only way I can have sex with a girl is if I am attracted to her and have great chemistry and connection , when I was younger that was a different story , I guess I didn’t know any better cuz I easily trusted and didn’t think of all the negative things that can occur when giving your heart to someone so when I was younger I really didn’t know much and would just hook up with girls But as I got older that all changed , A girl can be hot on the outside but if she doesn’t have good chemistry and connection with me I can’t fuck her, just how I am , I ask myself why I am this way, because I know there are a lot of people that can just have sex with someone because they are just attracted to them and have sex like it’s no big deal , but for some reason that is dirty to me , I can’t even pay for sex , that is also degrading to me , I guess I need to feel wanted and valued like I want to make her feel , I want the girl I am having sex with to keep coming back for more and being loyal to me , I think it’s because I been hurt to many times in my past , and been betrayed so for me to give myself to someone I have to feel that connection and chemistry like it means something , The funny thing is most girls think I am talking out my ass when I say this stuff but I am being completely honest , At times I don’t know if it’s a good or bad thing that I am this way because I love sex but I only love sex with someone I feel I can grow with that wants me like I want her ,

Crafteroon · Answer

Just to sleep, yes. To have sex, no. I need intellectual and physical attraction. If you aren't interested in your partner's pleasure and satisfaction, you're not going to perform at your best. And if you're not going to do your best, why do it at all?

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

Never, I need to be in some kind of emotional relationship with someone before I can sleep with them! I simply cannot have sex with someone whom I do not at least REALLY like a LOT, and preferably love!

OddBeMe · Answer

Sigh, listen ladies, for the last time…

Attraction is about our subconscious meshing with your subconcious. Physical attraction is involved, but it also includes humor, inteligence etc. So what i find attractive may not be Sports Illustrated swim suit issue.

Alex8736 · Answer

I did before at a company Christmas party where we were both bombed but luckily we worked out of different buildings but after the fact we would say hi in passing which I lucked out but I have seen situations where people hooked up and the situation became very uncomfortable for people

lilyanony1 · Answer

I've done this. I was really horny and they were too. We were safe.  And it worked out to be beneficial for both of us.  Would I do it again...  Probably not!  But it's been 3 years

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Looks don't matter to me, what's inside is what counts

Raaj4you · Answer

As a man I can say this, I can sleep with anyone if I want to. There is nothing wrong in it if you are horny, you just need a pussy to fuck. It doesn't matter if the girl is attractive or not.

daisydukeso · Answer

no, i'm very picky about who i let sleep with me. a lot of the times my attraction to people is based off of personality though, so they are not always conventionally physically attractive

Artemio_the_Grateful · Answer

As a guy my face does that scrunch up thing when I sleep. I look good when i get my sleep and do not tell you hi. I just wake up and when you feel like saying hi genuinely i will say the same.

MCheetah · Answer

Physically unattractive, but mentally attractive? Yes. Physically and mentally unattractive? Only if I was desperate and at rock bottom.

cth96190 · Answer

No, I would not. Seldom did I put my penis into a woman who I did not view as a potential wife. Call me weird, but I did not get the urge unless the woman meant something to me.

boldlyblu · Answer

No I wouldn't. I have to have a feeling of something love, attraction, something or I'm not comfortable sleeping next to him.

SimpleGuy95 · Answer

No why should I do that? For me the energy of the intimate moment wouldn´t develop I don´t like what I see.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Sleep with someone I'm not attracted to? :O I wouldn't even go to bed with them

Faith18letsgo · Answer

For sure! I've only been attracted to 3 people in my life so I don't limit myself in that way.

Bailey0506 · Answer

Definitely not - why would you want to if that person didn't do anything for you?

Whatever2929292 · Answer

NO!!! I am wating until marriage anyways. But even if I was doing that... NO

1GoldTwins · Answer

No. If I'm not attracted to them, there is no point.

Darkrainbow · Answer

No of course. Even attraction not enough for me, i must love him, even adore him

loveslongnails · Answer

If I'm not attracted to someone, I'd have no desire to sleep with them, no matter how good looking the "general consensus" may be. She has to be attractive to ME, or else it doesn't matter.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I wouldn’t even date someone I wasn’t attracted to let alone sleep with them

Tiptoetamm · Answer

No I wouldn't I have to be attracted to him or her for it to be pleasurable

JohnK123 · Answer

Hmmm depends if I’m with a friend and like some reason we are but non sexually then yeah other than that it’ll be with someone I’m in a relationship with

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Probably not... I'd need to feel some spark to want to have sex.

neoagent1 · Answer

Jesus no I wouldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to. Attraction is what makes you think of sex in the first place!

jengeorge26 · Answer

If I am really horney I would sleep with him for the sex…

DudeDiligence · Answer

I only sleep with my partner, and I've never had a partners I wasn't attracted to.

Adronicus · Answer

No, I would not. Wouldn't be fair to myself or her.

IsoUser · Answer

In a friend with benefits situation I don't see a problem with mutual pleasure when not involved in a relationship.

Pudsmucker · Answer

Maybe if they're a good looking. I doubt it though.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Probably not. I would have to be super drunk to do so

Hulk30 · Answer

it's not possible for me not to be attracted to attractive women but i need an emotional connection for sex to happen between me and women

Rollingstones84 · Answer

Probably not, because if I'm not attracted in that way then they'd just be fun

MrPickles13 · Answer

No not for me either. I wouldn't be comfortable enough for that

Jerre · Answer

I’d have to see what my cock says about it. More than likely yes.

spartan55 · Answer

That would depend on a litany of factors.

Makeushiver · Answer

I have but usually not more than once/ Sometimes any [ort in a storm

nawtee_me · Answer

Sex is sex and requires no attraction

stargazeraug1989 · Answer

Yes, but only under certain conditions.

legalboxers · Answer

they maybe ugly but got a good heart

NathanDavis · Answer

I've never done casual sex or one night stands

nitsuj86 · Answer

I've done it several times. lol

mandyfire98 · Answer

I wouldn't. I need to be attracted to the person.

Avicenna · Answer

With the lights out, yeah

Andres77 · Answer

Those days of regret are long gone.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

No. I wouldn't dare. Gotta have standards

CloudMassacre · Answer

I wouldn’t sleep with someone I’m not attracted to

Crankor · Answer

Nope. Wouldn't be enjoyable

Wise4myage · Answer

No, that would be a turn off for me.

driven159 · Answer

like to get to know her

Fuentes · Answer

If im not attracted then no lol

AFretiredTXn · Answer

Yes, I would still enjoy the opportunity.

bootieclapper9000 · Answer

hahaha lol

msc545 · Answer

I have in the past.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Nope.

altdbob · Answer

YUP been there done that and will do it again.

JakeS00 · Answer

Sure why not lol

lauraanne02 · Answer

If they paid me

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