Things are going really well, I just don't want to make it official yet?

[Anonymous]

Been seeing each other for close to a month now, and honestly, it's been fantastic. I just don't see any reason to rush to make it official.

I'm serious about her, it's just we're having so much fun getting to know one another - it's almost like I know it's likely to become serious, and that's great, but there's no need to label anything.

She came back from France after spending a few days there with her family, and she actually brought back my favorite food and drink without me asking or anything. I mean if that doesn't tell you how good it's going...

We work for the same company, but in different departments, and so I don't think any of our colleagues need to know just yet...

[HollyK21]

No need to lock it in after a month if you don’t feel ready, but once the end of month two or three starts creeping up and she can’t call you her boyfriend yet you’re getting boyfriend treatment, that may not work for her. Maybe labels aren’t important for you, but if they are for her and you know you want to be serious, then maybe it’s something worth accommodating.

[LazerBean]

It's not like being an official boyfriend or girlfriend really has any meaning anyway, so yeah there's no need to rush.

[Asker]

Yeah exactly! And if she brings it up, no doubt in my mind that I would say of course