Is a girl putting out on the first date a turn off? (Page 3)

[Hairylegs222]

The funnest 1st date I ever had was having sex at the end. Doesn't matter, just go with it. You only live once, enjoy it.

[bamesjond0069]

Id like her more for friends with benefits or casual situation and less for serious relationships. However if she's already done this then id expect it from her and move on if she didn't put out asap.

[OddBeMe]

Depends on the details. There are bar flies who offer sex acts for drinks.


There are also “first dates” with people who know each other pretty well.

[motownplayer2000]

I’ll respect her for going after what she wants so no wouldn’t like her any less. Be a bit awkward, but hey if the vibe is right, we keep it moving

[Uptowngirl88]

Why would you put out on the first date? What has the man done to earn you and your trust that you're so willing to just give it up?

[pass_the_celery98]

for me, yea. if i take her on a first date im just expecting a nice dinner, a hug in the end and wishing her a good night

[Waldoe]

That's how I decide if there will be a second date...

[momo__b]

Why does it matter? Everyone is different. If there’s a good connection why not? If not why put out at all? If you really like someone brining it up in casual convo and see where it leads to 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily, but it definitely paints a picture of her in my mind that is a little hard to overcome. I'm less likely to take her seriously as a serious girlfriend.

[Massageman]

Total turnoff. The big turn-on shouldn't happen the first date.

[AviatorTom]

@Massageman I would agree with you if there's only a first date. But if the two people have several dates and maybe establish a long-term relationship, there's nothing wrong with first-date sex.

[Massageman]

@AviatorTom I'm missing the logic here. If one has had several dates, how can one have FIRST-date sex?

[Redstang88]

Nah, if I like her I like her. That wouldn’t change anything

[driven159]

If it's a turn off, you have a choice as a guy not to have sex with her and say next time we will let me get to know you now that would turn her on

[Chekxkc]

I prefer a girl that would wait to have sex in a serious relationship even marriage perhaps. As long as it’s not just for religious beliefs but her nature

[Anonymous]

Not at all. If we're vibing and it's going that way I'd be pretty stoked on her.

[H8INCHES]

Just the opposite. I don't respect a prude who holds off because she thinks she should. It's dishonest and tells me she can hold out whenever she wants. Not my kinda girl.

[IsoUser]

Why would I think anything less of her if the chemistry is there emotionally and physically?

[jahaims]

If she tried to hookup on the first date that would be our last date

[Crankor]

It would make me think it's more of a fling than anything long term

[Vinni89]

Its a mutual decision, just make sure that its protected sex.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes and I’ve had to start saying no when they offer