Why Do People Immediately Want To Talk On "HangOut" When Meeting Them On A Dating Site?

[Anonymous]

Why don't they want to talk on the dating site?

[driven159]

some do that because they are scammers wanting money if they try to get money on dating site, they get kicked off so tell them you want to talk on the dating site for a while till you get to know them if they are a scammer they won't bother you anymore

[Guy13]

🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️. Post it when you find out, please.

[Asker]

I'm actually writing to a woman on HangOut. I met her on POF and she immediately wants to talk on HangOut. As it turns out, she doesn't live where she does and she isn't the age on the profile. Her excuse is that it's all new to her.

[Guy13]

Nigeria, Russia, Chinese SCAMMER.

[DaveJord]

Hang outs is gone my man, its Google chat now.

So on dating sites the standard rule is by third or second day of chatting they should be willing to meet you in person. If your chating with someone online and their unwilling or unable to make plans to meet with you move on.

In my experience if you connect on line a d they want move it off the platform almost immediately then they are scammers. All the many women I met on line and then got a date with keep in on the platform until I asked them out and then exchanged number.

100% of all people that wanted to move immediately off the platform were scammers and I never got a date with them. But hang outs, Google Chat and Whats App are relatively safe platforms... I did it a few times.. but every time I did it was a scam.

[DoctorSex]

It's called escalating the interaction.
The purpose of dating is to escalate the interaction. Otherwise what's the point?

Great question and one many men tend to suffer with when dating women. They either don't escalate or take too long to escalate and it gives off weak masculine vibes which is not attractive fundamentally.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[FilmGuy93]

I haven't heard of anyone doing that. I hear about more people going to email, snapchat, FB, or texting.

But anyway, they want to get off the dating app for the sake of convenience. Also, dating apps sometimes charge for messaging between users.

[dudeinohio]

If they want to go to hangouts, then they are typically scammers.

[Anonymous]

To try and trick you into giving them money; or personal information to steal your identity. If they ask on the site they would get banned and have less targets.

[Ruenella_]

No idea.