How long did you chat/ talk with someone before they asked you to be your girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

met a guy online and hit it off real well.. chatted for hrs unlike normal chats and he already asked if i wanted to be his girlfriend? What does he mean really? Does this mean he wants to chat dirty or could he be serious 🤔

[Kaneki05]

Considering I started to date a girl after I knew her for couple hours not long. I would say be careful with rushing it though however ironic that is from me.

[BarryLiverstone]

He’s likely flirting. I meet people irl and have dates before asking that question

[BarryLiverstone]

But how do you feel about him?

[Asker]

I really like him but he sounds too good to be true I don't even know if he's real like he says he deleted all his social media and can't tell if his pics are even real. But he sounds real, is so nice, caring but this could all be a lie as it's all in chat

[BarryLiverstone]

If it’s just been chat and he’s too good to be true then he probably is. My advice would be to take your time and don’t attach too many emotions to him yet. It’s fun having someone you can chat with online but asking to be your boyfriend so soon is a red flag

[BarryLiverstone]

People can fake caring for a few days, many can’t fake for a few months yk

[BarryLiverstone]

You said it was unlike other chats. What are your chats normally like with new people?

[Asker]

Ik I'm scared he's some old guy doing it for kicks but he hasn't asked for any dirty pics yet or anything bad. I gave him a different # then my real one for safely. Any tips on how to see if this guy is real?

[BarryLiverstone]

You could plan to meet him in a public place or ask him to FaceTime. In reality if you are enjoying chatting with him but feel scared then just take your time and enjoy the conversation

[BarryLiverstone]

How would he know that you are real?

[Asker]

thanks I'm gonna take it slow and see if he'd do FaceTime I couldn't tell if that was code for asking me to doing sexting, like most guys on chat or not it's not a normal dating site I met him on, it was random chat so I'm super leary

[BarryLiverstone]

Then don’t ask to FT yet. Just keep it on chat for a week and see what he talks about and see if he keeps investing this much time with you

[BarryLiverstone]

Don’t blame ya, Sexting is boring anyway. Much prefer to actually have a conversation

[Asker]

Thanks so much really needed someone's opinion on this!

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome. Feel free to follow me if you have more questions about him

[RuthlessAggression]

I didn't know there was a "time limit" on being someone's "just friend", LMAO