Boyfriend goes away on a last minute holiday without saying anything- says he's not ok and needs to go away from things. What do you think about this?

[Anonymous]

[Avicenna]

It’s concerning. Are you in regular contact with him?

[Asker]

Yes, I am

[Avicenna]

What did say? I'd assume he's cheating without proof from him that he isn't.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Severe depression or cheating

[Pyrofox]

Sounds like a desperate case of the later and he can't keep silent no more...

[Asker]

Apparently, depression. Am I crazy to be angry about what he did? First time that I've been with someone like this...

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Not crazy.

[Pyrofox]

Sound normal.

Way to nail it @captain-obvious

[Asker]

I'm torn between answering him in an angry way or try to calm down *woosah*, answer almost in a normal way (like showing support-if it really is depression), and see how it goes when he comes back

[Anonymous]

He is either depressed or he is cheating on you.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

You copied my answer or said the same thing?

[Iron_Man]

Looks like he’s in trouble

[Celticwolf78]

He's hiding the fact that he's cheating

[countrygirl8754]

Red flag

[driven159]

Red flag waving