The silence is erry -how do I deal with the situation?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has things going on in his life, but won't tell me. He rarely messages and the silence is erry. How should I deal with the situation without pushing him away?

[Anonymous]

Ask him if he needs some space right now, but at the same time you should tell him that you care about him and you feel like you’re being left out in the dark. Then you can say something like you would appreciate it if he could share with you about what’s bothering him but he can just tell you when he’s ready, meanwhile you’re still here to support him and whatever the problem is.

[boredgal]

maybe he is just not ready to tell you yet. but you should assure him that you are there for him, sometimes they just need the support.

[DrewJay]

Your boyfriend was probably waiting for you last night and you could have came over.
Some time some get frustrated always online on an app or phone this phone that. I am sure your boyfriend loves youV so Very much.

[Fernwehr]

I have been there before. Its a coping mechanism. If you are the talking sort its going to eat into you. Doesn't get easier. Suggest you tell you boyfriend pls talk if not just walk.

[Asker]

I'm not walking away.

[DavidRaul]

You should have a deep talk about opening to him, which might solve a lot of tangled problems.

[Anonymous]

just ask him if he's ok