Guys, what are your frustrations with dating and women in 2022? (Page 2)
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Too many single mothers
Too many easy chicks
Too many 4s that think they're 11s
Too many women expecting men to be willing to empty their life savings for dates
Not enough attractive women
Not enough conservative women
Not enough women with real interests that can hold an engaging conversation on the thing they care about
Not enough women that are interested in having a man she plans to stay with
Not enough women that are able to entertain themselves
Too many women always looking for a better man
Not enough women that can actually be satisfied
And a problem specific to my area:
Not enough single women that I find attractive in general.
Pretty much everything. I had to reverse the question to see if it could even be answered. What do i enjoy about dating women now? Nothing. Not a damn thing. It’s been years since i’ve met a woman so awesome that i would put myself through the wood chipper that is dating straight women.
My frustration is mainly with the fact that dating is treated as a "game" with rules.
Where we can't be ourselves or show that we are really excited about being with someone so soon.
Or that we have to appear interest but not too interested.
Why does this have to be the way?
How on earth would I know. I've never dated the entire race of women, least of all in this year. Therefore I have none with women in 2022 I only have my experiences of women I've dated which don't count for the entire race and I haven't dated anyone in 2022 yet.
I'm so glad I don't have to date in 2022. Reality is in today's world, do men really need women? What do women bring to the table in a relationship these days? I can't think of one quality thing besides the ability of having children, for which most likely will be held against men to either trap them in a marriage from hell or to bleed them dry in a divorce.
Bottom line is it really isn't worth being with a woman in 2022. It's not worth the hassle.
For me the biggest dating is that online dating is scam because most online websites operate with bots or fake profiles that are hard to discern.
My biggest issue with is the hypocrisy because women are as self entitled as many guys are and that it is hard to find a partner is not solely because of guys hence women love to see dating as a game as well.
I think mens struggles universally boil down to 1 core issue. Women aren’t as interested in us as we are in them. As a guy you’re like invisible to women. It’s like I need to bring more to the table for women to like me than what they have to bring to the table and it makes me sad and feel like no women actually like me and makes me not sure if I actually even want to date. I just want like an equal best friendship but that doesn’t seem to be a thing as a guy trying to date.
I agree with this, I totally forgot to mention this in my reply. The thing is though that's just how we're biologically wired. When it comes to attraction men are almost entirely physical, i. e we see a pair of nice boobs, and a nice ass, and we're already under the biological spell lol. It's also worth pointing out that women nowadays sexualize themselves as much as men sexualize women, i. e women will wear tight clothing that highlight their physique and that will inevitably grab the attention of men.
Because of social media and dating apps women have become extremely picky where the average man is invisible to the average woman. Only the top 10 % of guys have any chance with women, the rest are being used for their time, attention and money. The interaction between men and women are becoming more adversarial.
Top 10%? I once logged on to a dating site as a woman looking for a man. Once I put in all the requirements the average woman had, all 400 men in my home state were eliminated.
I also answered every question wrong to try to find the least appealing woman on the site…basically, an unemployed, chain smoking, heavy drinking, overweight divorced woman with a kid. Her headline said “Where are all the good men?”
Today's woman look down her nose at men, thinks the universe was designed to revolve around her, while simultaneously not being able to go 2 minutes without validating herself with male attention. It's like dating an illogical 14 year old brat in a woman's body.
That so unbelievably accurate
In general:
1. Most women are flaky and never get to the point about anything.
2. Women who flirt and tease but have no serious intentions of anything.
In the specific area where I live I have noticed:
married women flirt a lot and make insinuations. I have noticed that a lot of people in the region where I live have side chicks or side guys. I have had several spoken - for women who have tried to make me their side guy. But I politely tell them to fuck off.
I have had only two kinds of problems with the girls I dated:
#1 Lots of girls had a bad past. I don't accept immoral/promiscuous girls in my life.
#2 Lots are entitled to think they deserve more than they actually deserve.
Solution: I stopped dating white girls and am now only into Asian girls. Coincidence or not, it worked for me.
The things I say only applies to today's woman, as the same complaints have been said about men and women since I was a child, so nothing's changed.
-They generally suck, and not in the fun way.
-Some thinks they are the hot shit more than they are. It's good to think you are beautiful, but don't put potential suiters down because of it. Just say, "no, thanks."
-Older people being immature. Make no sense.
That's all I got right now.
They seem to want what they call us to have there shit together, and most of the time they are less in control of their own lives than we are, that's generally why they are probably single. Personally I don't want to be supporting some woman just because I'm acrewing her.
Say, if i am on a dating app and we match. They expect men to keep the conversation going and wouldn't put a damn work to make the conversation a bit better. Thats completely a turn off and makes me unmatch these women and its really frustrating.
I am married but if I were to date the most important thing to is she be real and not try to over impress we can tell when you do that, I think woman that have natural beauty are by far the most beautiful women on the planet
- Entitlement and narcissism
- Complete lack of morals and self respect
- Unobtainable expectations and standards
- False victim bullshit
- No loyalty / grass is greener syndrome / Illusion of choice mentality
Eh... I'm not really a fan of the constant vague hostility that so many American women seem to have for men, but it's not too hard to avoid women like that.
Nothing. Its a waste of my time trying to prove my worth to someone who only has sex to offer
Don’t date women with only sex to offer. I see men say this then turn around and only go for that exact type of woman. I’ll advise them that it’s a waste of time. They’ll tell me they don’t care cuz “shes hot.” Then once they get off they start caring. Rinse and repeat.
@MzAsh: You're correct. There are indeed shallow men all about. But I think it's important to highlight that shallowness is a personality trait vice tied only to one gender. Many women are shallow too. That aside, of course nobody should want a meaningful relationship with a shallow person. But as a woman, can you please indulge us men what a woman truly brings to a relationship?
A woman can bring many things to a relationship. I suppose it depends on her skills, how she likes to give value, and what value her partner appreciates. To name a few things, I’d say love, support when life gets tough, companionship, intimacy, shared household investments and responsibilities, children, etc. For my man, I do these things minus the children. I was his nurse for 6 months after he had an accident at work and was off his feet. I was there for him when his mom, dad, and grandmother passed away. These are the things that matter to us.
Great response. Sounds like a real relationship between two awesome people.
Thank you!
Yea i guess companionship would be nice.
But I've lost faith in such things. Which is why i said what i said.
The only thing women have ever brought into the lives of myself or my friends is Bills, drama, and abuse.
haven't dated so I can't say but it seems as if women's expectations and standards are way too unrealistic.
Knowing if she wants to be treated like a woman from 2022, or a woman from 1922 (some of the answers on that list from women suggest this)