Guys, are women ruining the dating scene and do they have unrealistic expectations in your city/country?

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In Sydney, Australia 🇦🇺 where I live... this is absolutely the case.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Sadly in today’s world people are just plain out selfish and only really think about themselves , To find someone that values relationships today is very hard to come by , it’s out there but a lot harder to find , I blame a lot on social media for filling people’s heads that everyone is pretty much a piece of shit and can’t be trusted , All girls are whores and all guys are as well , everyone assumes the worst case scenario and has a harder time trusting each other , everywhere I turn somebody is backstabbing someone , someone is cheating on someone , someone is betraying someone , this world pretty
Much has gone to hell , Girls are selling themselves for money like prostitution all of a sudden is an ok thing to do , degrading yourself is ok all of a sudden , cuz people need money nowadays cuz this world has gone to hell , why suicide rates have doubled , and so many more people are suffering depression , This world has gone to hell in a hand basket , USA has turned to complete shit especially with the dumb ass we have as a president that doesn’t know his ass from his hole and the cost of things has sky rocketed to where people are having a harder time trying to make ends meet and keep a roof over their heads , Gas and Groceries have sky rocketed to where people can barely afford it anymore , Most companies are suffering trying to find workers, like no one wants to work anymore , everyone wants shit handed to them , if things do not change in this world for the better we are all doomed sadly to say , ever since the pandemic hit this world has gone to hell. A man made virus that destroyed this world fucking our children’s heads up to where they don’t know which direction to turn , how do you guide children in a fucked up world we live in , when we don’t even know what direction to turn anymore , Marijuana all of a sudden is legal and a medical drug that cures shit so it’s ok to smoke weed like crazy now because the government legalized it cuz they know they are shitting on all of us so it’s a band aid for them to keep shitting on us so , get stoned and high and drunk who cares about anything people have become so blind and lost to so much stupidity that is occurring in this world that I honestly don’t see it getting any better. So many people are miserable and unhappy , I find peace sitting on my patio and staying away from people as much as possible I am not saying everyone is an asshole but there are a lot more assholes in this world now cuz every time I go out in public I see or hear nothing but complete nonsense from people , so many people are suffering it’s sad to see the world we live in , Most girls Today live with the grass is greener syndrome because they have a harder time trusting a guy and Guys today have a harder time trusting girls , cheating is all of a sudden ok to do cuz no one gives a fuck about anyone and assumes to worst case scenario Marriage is going to be a thing of the past because guys are afraid to get married to a girl that is plotting to take all his assets when she eventually gets bored of him , Me personally will not be with a girl that is looking for me to take care of her I don’t care how hot she is , if she is only after my wallet I want nothing to do with her. I want a partner not a mooch. I want a girl that has my back like I have hers not a girl that is selfish and only thinks of herself that will spread her legs to some guy because of his status. I will not commit to a whore. Every girl I have dated these past few years is a closet whore I have fucked married women that lied about being married to me I have fucked single girls that said they want love and a relationship but then find out they are fucking other guys as well , that shit makes my stomach turn that people can be that selfish and heartless to the point I feel maybe I am the one that is wrong , maybe I should become a whore? Why waste my time giving my heart to someone that is just going to shit on it anyways , Am I wrong? Is morals and religion a thing of the past as well? Lately I feel I am just in survival mode because I feel lost as well but I keep my chin up and do what I have to do to get by. Praying for the best

TsmGai · Accepted Answer

Both but mostly women. Men are typically over eager and have zero game. They compensate by trying to show off strength, status, and/or money regardless of whether or not they have any. This makes men appear low value by default. Women tend to stereotype and scrutinize men to keep themselves safe from sleazeballs and because most men confirm these stereotypes. It makes dating needlessly difficult for dudes.

Modern women however are too picky and entitled. They want the best of the best even if they don't compare. They judge men based on looks, money, and social status. However, women prefer men they perceive to be to be superior to them. Naturally, they're attracted to the most attractive men. But most modern women have deluded themselves into thinking they can attract these types of men without assessing themselves objectively. They have a hard time settling for someone on their or below their level and even resent these men despite willingly entering a relationship with them.

Unfortunately, men are just a tool to women. Usually good for just one thing. They have several men on speed dial designated to do certain tasks under the illusion of a relationship. If you don't perform the function they want, you're completely useless to them. Bitches ain't shit fam.

coachTanthony · Answer

the expectations on both sides are a bit ridiculous.

Summeroflove · Answer

Depends on the women. There are women who ain’t like that. Whatever.

MCheetah · Answer

I can't vote A or B.  Some,  if not many, women are ruining the dating scene, yes. But not most or all. But definitely "some or many." Modern women tend to have unrealistic dating expectation  everywhere!  Even in South Korea, but especially in the West. But it's not all of them; just  a lot  of them!  Instead of wanting a good man who treats her right and loves her, they want men to be six feet minimum, loaded in cash if not outright rich, and in the top 5% of looks, as in men who are 9s and 9.5s. The few who aren't like this, don't live in English-speaking countries. But yeah,  usually  if a woman is single in the US, Canada, England, Ireland, Australia, New Zealand, or South Africa and not physically unattractive, it's likely because her attitude is crap and her dating standards are ridiculously high. It's not all women, but it isn't uncommon, either. I'm so sick of this being like 40% of the single women out there; that I've quit the dating world outright. Cause who needs that crap?

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

For men, the majority of women ruin the dating scene a whole lot. Ot's the truly undesirable, the overweight, the egotistical, the narcissists, the single moms, the mentally unstable, and the uncertain.

You know what a lot of them have in common? High demands, high expectations, they expect to be courted, they can't keep a man or they repel men, they have misandrist views, no accountability, no emotional control, and think they're all 10s when most of them are barely 7s.

There are barely wives out here and many women will never know what that's like.

FriendlyCanadianGuy · Answer

When I was 22 and moved to the city (Toronto) after graduation...19-20 year olds rejected me after I told them I wasn't making 100k/year yet...
Others asked about my car model, and didn't like my 2014 Nissan Sentra... They blatantly told me they can't date me because of it

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

I feel that way too, but that's not telling the whole story.

Until men "generally" stop giving women attention, nothing will ever be 50/50. It's a collaborative effort. Not that I'm bashing women. Just giving facts.

It all starts with men.

Adam1978 · Answer

Yes the expectations at the start is ridiculous, it only breed dishonesty. There need to a more open dialog and a exploration of if people fit before you can expect dedication and the other parts you want in a relationship. Or you will only date people who fake it until they make it

Justin1019 · Answer

Women go for hypergamy which means that they go for men who have higher status than them.

Most women nowadays want 6 feet billionaire athlete tough guys despite not amounting to those kind of guys at all. Those guys on the other hand don't take them seriously and just dump them very soon after getting sex from them, cheat on them, or both.

Curmudgeon · Answer

Well, on the other side of the ocean in greater San Francisco, we have a saying, the women who like men don't speak English well, and the women who speak English well don't like men!

Shamalien · Answer

Yup…they can enjoy their misery I guess, got programmed by trash tv at a young age

Anonymous · Answer

Women are ruining thier own lives. Don't believe me look at all the unhappy women on this site. I'm over her doing just fine. 🙂

UniquelyBasic · Answer

The women where I live seem to be pretty chill and not insane. Maybe some are crazy and I'm just good at avoiding those women.

Truthatanycost · Answer

I think women should continue exactly as they are doing...

blissinanarchy1 · Answer

Women around here mostly got OnlyFans and are friends with past sex partners. They expect men to be cool with it

misogynistic_pig · Answer

Where I live now in appointments the bills are divided, the mothers say angrily that their daughters' boyfriends do not pay the entire bill.

OddBeMe · Answer

Be it I haven’t dated in 15 years. But I would surmise both genders having non perfect human issues. Blaming one side probably isn’t the answer,

LiamJHayden · Answer

Some do, some don't. That's why you do a coffee date the first time.

boobliker · Answer

some may be but i think most are OK with it all

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