Guys, whats the time gap between each dates?

[Anonymous]

Guys, how long are you willing to wait for a third date? (If y’all schedule doesn’t match) and whats the typical time gap between each date?

[DaveJord]

So I do most my dating on line and I have been pretty successful at it. I am in great relationship of 8 months... and I went on 16 dates in 4 months with 12 different women. So I learned a lot about my self, and what works for me and want doesn't.

So most dating sites have tutorials and experts that can give you advise and there is lots of information on line. So my research gave me some standard rules that most experts agree on.

First off, dating is a numbers game. So the more people you connect with and meet the higher your percentage of a chances that you will find the right person. So don't waste too much time on any one person if you're not getting the results you are looking for.

So once you connect with someone on line, and have chatted for 2 to 3 days they should be willing to meet you or commit to a first date. The experts say most women know within 24 to 48 hours if they would be willing meet for a first date. So if your talking to a women after the 3 day and she is unwilling or unable to make a commitment to meet you, do not waste too much time on her... its a numbers game so put your time into better opportunities.

I personally never ended a first date with a women I was interested in without getting a gauge from her on the possibilities for second date 2nd... but if a week or more went by with out being able to coordinate something, then I just assumed she's not really interested in a second. Even the experts say that if someone is so busy or your schedules are that miss matching that it is a possible red flag. They can not pick a date on the calendar and commit to a second date then you have to consider the circumstances. When I say with in a week, that means within a week they should be about to commit to date within the next week or 2. If they can't then they are possibly dating other people, or their lives are seriously that busy that maybe you two are not a good match... so again numbers game, don't waste too much time by putting all your eggs in one basket. The longer they stretch it out the more likely they or you will meet or consider other people.

So after the 2nd to 3rd there is no really good gauge or time table to say is recommended... the expects don't really offer much. Its assumed by the end of second date you two are figuring things out. If you got through the first 2 dates, then by the 3rd date you to should be vibeing and you should be working things out... so again I would not say more than a week at the most.

So when are looking for someone in the dating world, the key factors you're looking for are... Is this women available to you emotionally and physically? - so if she is so busy that coordinating dates is that hard, then she's not making it a priority and she may not be truly be available or making herself available. Red Flag!

The truth is that went two people met and they are totally vibeing then they make it as easy as possible. Once you get to a point that you do not feel you are getting what you would want out the relationship or potential relations then move on. If your having feeling like this just trying to get past the first few dates, then they are not the one for you.

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If I'm trying to get close to a girl, and we're not hanging out every weekend, I'm gonna assume that she's seeing other boys. So if you're busy over the weekend you might want to say so, but like I said, I might not necessarily believe her.

I'm suggesting that more or less, if a girl actually likes me, then she'd rearrange her schedule so we'd see each other often, like once a week. And I suppose if you're a student, then there's flexibility there, it doesn't necessarily have to be the weekend, since students sort of have Thursdays and they hangout on campus together all the time. And I would be understanding around midterms and finals.