Do you think I can meet a woman without a romantic past at church?

[MissingAWoman]

If I get heavily involved at church, do you think I can meet a woman that has never had a boyfriend, first love, or any romantic bond with a guy before?

I am 27, almost 28, and never had a real girlfriend. I seek a woman with the same inexperience as me.

Yes

No

Updates

+1 y

Girls, let me know what you think.

[Anonymous]

Why would you want someone inexperienced if you’re already in your late 20s?

[MissingAWoman]

Because I am inexperienced myself

[Opinion Owner]

Okay I understand not wanting to be someone who had a relationship before bc you probably don’t wanna be dealing with her past baggage. But why no first love?

[MissingAWoman]

Because of the hypothetical situation that exists to where she can reunite with someone from her youth and it be a sweeter, more desirable outcome even though she chooses to stay with me.

[Opinion Owner]

Huh oddly specific, I think you’re just overthinking it. But good luck!

[Opinion Owner]

Also, you might want to work on your fear (of being abandoned for someone from their youth) before getting into a relationship. I think it’s gonna help you find the right girl a lot easier.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

All women have romantic histories. If they are 30 or younger they’ve got body counts into the double or triple digits.

[MissingAWoman]

She can be 18, 19, or in her early 20s. You cannot tell me there is not one girl out there for me that meets what I am looking for. There are billions of women in this world.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

There may be but women are social collectivists. They don’t operate on a social stigma system of what is right and what is wrong; they operate within a system that is defined by what is popular or unpopular. Right now being a good woman is profoundly unpopular so girls and women are acting like degenerates at a multi generational level. You have to assume that every girl you met has sucked at least 5 dicks because there probably that she have is So staggeringly more that we are talking about a percent of a percent kind of numbers.

Women will defend themselves but just know that they are lying. They will say whatever the right thing to say is to each person and do whatever the popular thing is to be part of their peer group.

[LazerBean]

I think it's definitely your best bet.

[MissingAWoman]

I wonder how I should get involved. I know there are young adult groups, but sometimes there is a lot of married couples in those believe it or not. At least that was my experience at one church. Volunteering maybe?

[LazerBean]

Yeah, I was in a young adults class and most of us were married. I would just find a church you like and see where you can fit yourself in

[Jamie05rhs]

Good luck with that.

[MissingAWoman]

You think I still have a chance?

[Jamie05rhs]

Doubtful. And I'm not being an asshole here. I'm just telling you my honest opinion.

[MissingAWoman]

Most girls who voted seem to think otherwise

[Jamie05rhs]

Most women are overly optimistic m

[Anonymous]

hahah dating so pointless