Would you contact an old CRUSH?

Question

Would you call or contact an OLD CRUSH. Someone who you never had the B4LLZ to speak to?

Ευδεμονια · Accepted Answer

I did, exactly 2 times, since when I decided to be more direct and honest with myself and the people around me.

First time, she was my best friend, she became my crush 10 years ago, she rejected me and I totally ruined our friendship, we lost contact for long time. Last year I found her casually on Facebook and wrote her, so we recovered our friendship, we talked openly about the crush period and we are more mature now so it’s a completely different story.

Second time, I had a crush from a sport group a lot of years ago, I never told her, only recently I met her 2 years ago at a reunion of youngsters of the sport group so I good openly her she has been my crush. She told me she had a secret crush for me in the same period, let’s say we would have formed a couple maybe if we would have talked each other honestly. Obv now isn’t possible since she’s married and our paths diverged completely.

dailyoctopus94 · Accepted Answer

Sure, and I have.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Depends- is he single and available? That's the most important thing to consider- I'm not going to confess to a guy that's happily married or in a relationship.

And does he like me? There's a reason they're called "crushes": the feeling is rarely mutual. So I'm not going to call up a guy that just saw me as a girl buddy or sister.

If the odds are in my favor? Heck yeah, give me his number and we'll see where it goes!

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

No he's married now and fat 😁

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

I would, mostly just to ask how theyve been since it has been a while. I usually try talking with my crushes so it wouldn't be too uncomfortable just to have me text them out of now where. Eh, maybe it would, but hey, I can just spam them with memes I guess to prove that I wasn't sent by the CIA

Anonymous · Answer

No, when I decide that someone should be out of my life…that person is OUT forever! That includes old crushes that only took my precious time to find my mr. right. So no way would I go back to where I was once stuck 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Mijopapi2000 · Answer

I have made contact with girls who I felt I missed a chance with and every single time even if we both wanted each other it always went bad which tells me these people are out of our lives for a reason. Years go by people are not the same and they will disappoint you.

Th3ft · Answer

Yeah not a chance. Maybe if I end up getting back in to a friend group with them. But most all of the girls I have missed chances with have all gotten married by now or are in a different country.

Guy__ · Answer

It depends. Right now I can't think of anyone whom I would. But it's not impossible that in the future I'll fail with someone and later take another chance.

alice55 · Answer

No, I've seen him see years ago and he have become truly ugly, he's all wrinkly (even though he's only 25) and have gotten scary skinny

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

I don't see any reason not to. Jist normal chitchat nothing else.

scooogy · Answer

I tried so once, but only because I saw that she ended up as a middle class single mother. She remembered me, but she didn't want any more contact. I had some more girls decline any reunion.

Blackcupcake · Answer

I’ve never not had the balls to talk to “a crush” lol

AFretiredTXn · Answer

Talk for a while, find out if they are married, then mentioned how I once felt, and see how she reacts.

DevinAM · Answer

I have done this before, I just told them that I had a crush on them.

Anonymous · Answer

HAHAHAH no I have a score to settle with the people of the past lets hope they change to the most high or else they will be dealt with

eagle1951 · Answer

never ever getting back together,  NOOO

pizzalovershouse · Answer

No cuz time to move on

Fuentes · Answer

Nah fuck all that

Anonymous · Answer

He’s in the same friend group as me

kao118 · Answer

yes I would

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Nah.

EaterPeter · Answer

Yes.

In_Trance · Answer

Nope

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