Is he using me or what?

My guy friend offered me a place too stay at his home when i couldnt find a place, we used to have a friends with benefits and i felt awkward i accepted his offer but now its just feel weird... we do couple thibgs but we are not a couple... he doesn't want a relationship with me and everytime his fam visits him he say go upstairs..

Is he using me or what?
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