Is he using me?

[tempirl2012]

My boyfriend was recently with his baby mother at the hotel room. She was saying he bought her food, He paid for the room ( which he didn't) I did. Smh.. He's sneaking behind my back talking to her, using my car to pick her up still. She's always with someone's man. Then she'll say "oh, i didn't know those guys were with anyone because they lied" blah blah. 😒🙄now since im with him, he's blocked her number again. And as always, im the one paying for Hotel rooms, The Cars he's driving and he was just with another female a month ago. Probably 10+. When he's done using them , he wants to come back to me plus we don't ever use condoms even after finding out the baby mom is pregnant, we still don't use them. I don't know what to do. 🤦is he using me?

[SnowedIn]

Yes he's using you.

And you are enabling him.

Either dump him or stop whining.

[NoFollowReqestPlz]

She won't leave him. If you could see all of her other questions, you will see this girl is straight up messed up.

She admitted in other questions and post she made that stalked the girl who is pregnant, she also said that she hoped she would lose the baby and how she also wanted to fight her. She also said in another post how she wanted the baby mom to pay for her to get her hair dyed.

[SnowedIn]

None of that matters. I'm sure you're right.

My point is this:
He won't change.
He is using you.
You are enabling his behavior and, through your actions, telling him it's okay.

But, do you really want to be with a guy who has at least one baby mama and will probably have another?

[GoingNooWhere]

Oh my goodness. Are you still posting about this guy.