I had a fight with my boyfriend and he said to get out of his life, he loves but still he said that what do I do?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

When people are angry, they say things to hurt the other on purpose but deep inside, they don't mean the words they speak.

You need to give him his space for a few hours so he can calm down.

Depending on the circumstances and why the discussion went to a fight, you should either apologize (if it was your fault) or motivate him to do the apology (if he was at fault). Under no circumstances should you allow to drag the fight for days. That kind of unsolved problem leads to more problems and on the long run, it is detrimental to any relation.

If he was at fault and does not apologize, be the wiser person and reach to him. Ask him what led him to behave the way he did. Do not accuse or be angry when trying to reach out.

[PrettyPriya]

If he said to get out of his life, I would not view that as love. I think the best action is to give him some space and time to cool down. It could have been an overreaction in the heat of the moment. Then again, it may not depending on what the fight was about. You didn’t give any details about that so hard to say.

Best just give it some time and then try to talk to him. See if after a while you can sit down and talk about your relationship and why the fight even happened.

If you can’t do that, I would say it is likely over. Communication is a key part of any relationship, whether it be boyfriend/girlfriend, friend or family. You need to be able to talk.

Perhaps update the question using the update box with some more details (if you are okay with that) with what the cause of the fight was and other relevant info like how long you have been together. That will help users give better answers.

[Asker]

Thanks Priya! That's very helpful

[PrettyPriya]

You are most welcome and I hope you two can sort this out. Best of luck to you.

[DoctorSex]

Probably best to carry on with your life.

When men say things like this, for the most part they've been thinking about I for a long time. He has most likely tried to make you aware of some behaviour you have some that upsets him but to no avail.

I did a MyTake about 3 traits that help men realise they have a good woman, and 3 traits to run away from. It's also a great guide for young women: 3 Traits That Will Help You Realise, You're Dealing With A Valuable Woman.

This will help you realise which trait you were doing that probably upset him. It may not change the situation, but hopefully you'll take the points to heart and make the necessary adjustments if needed for your next relationship.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[Asker]

Thanks doctorsex!

[Guy13]

Honor his wishes🤷🏻‍♂️ He may of meant, I don’t need a second mother.-get the hell out of all my Business-rather not be with you than be in prisoner by you🤷🏻‍♂️ I have felt all those things…. I hope this works out as you wish for. 🙂

[boggboss]

Give him space and time to cool off

[In_Trance]

get out of his life