ok certainly there are other details that are not mentioned here, but i will talk from what you said.
ok dear
first of, after 6 years, you just wanted to let him behind? just like that? well i hope it is not just like that. if you could easily let go off someone, that other person doesn't have to do the same. he couldn't. he left whatever he had and came with you and according to what you said, he only started doing those things after moving out, right? why don't you talk to him instead of giving him instructions? may be he has some kind of deep problem; yeah people can get childish sometimes. he wants you, ok? and appreciate this. i am not saying that you have to accept what he is doing i am just saying try to kniw what's in his head. if you dont want to help him as boyfriend, do it for a human. no judging and it's your life and you dont have to be in someone's debt, just help and care are better than leave.
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You have to kick him out. If he pulls that suicide b. s. again tell him "I don't want you to commit suicide but I also won't be manipulated, cause that isn't love". Worst case scenario you will have to get the cops involved.
look up the laws in your state, they are more helpful in understanding the best way to kick him out. don't block his number change yours. its not right to string him along and for him to creep you.
if he wants to go home help him by buying a ticket or something, but get him out of your life.
like someone said he maybe dealing with a lot, and that maybe true. if you want to see if things could work out, talk with him about counseling or something and see if he will get help. if he doesn't want to help himself, or work on your relationship, walk away.
six years is a long time, and he moved for you, but at the end of the day your not his mother, nor his family. you've lost interest in him as you are looking elsewhere, and if you are ready to cut ties and move on, then go for it.
Why can't he just move Out? What do your parents say about it? It's their house, have them help you kick him out. And don't help him anymore. Block his number on your phone, if that doesn't work call your phone provider and see if you can stop receiving calls from that number as it is harassing you. If he is still harassing you, get an order of protection. I mean there should absolutely be no excuse why he couldn't move out and be out of your life.
Not only is he wasting his time, he's wasting your time and all the time that someone else could be spending with you.
I take it he's not paying rent or anything of the sort so it's not like he has any legal right to be there. Either move out or change the locks; first one might be a better option though.
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Have your parents throw him out.
Then, file a restraining order, like others said.
Block everything on your phone, social media... change numbers even, if it will help.
He is a manipulative ass... I believe he has been trying to have a free ride from the start.He can't make you do anything. If you have to have your parents evict him then do it and then change your number. Saying he's going to kill himself is a form of manipulation and that's pathetic. Move on girl, you're not his mom.
Wait til he leaves, change the locks and leave all his stuff outside.
Or have the cops be there while he packs his stuff and leaves.
He's using that has a manipulative tacticJust get your parents to kick his sorry fucking ass out the door and then get a restraining order put on him.
If you want him out bad enough you'll find a way. But I don't think you do
You don't exactly need him to agree that you can break up with him. Just do it and be done with him. Stop pitying him.
Yes dear tell him to get the hell out and get a restraining order against him
hey only thing i can say is wait till his not home and change the locks
just pack and leave, if he won't let you slip out one day call the cops and have the cops help you move out
Kick his ass out of the door. Or make your strongest friend do it.
What do you mean let, just do it without announcement
Tell him you are done with him, and want to break up?
i mean its not like you need permission.
Move out
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