Is playing hard to get with someone you like a good idea?

[Anonymous]

[DaveJord]

Nope never a good idea. It they think you're playing games its a turnoff. I mean do you like it when a women does this to you? I got one don't put up with it, honestly. I'm a grown man this they of juvenile behavior doesn't cut it. I graduated highschool 27 years ago and I didn't put up with it then. But I was never that desperate for the attention, and my ego didn't need and more inflation.

Hot then cold, makes you wait days for a text. Always requires you to text first... I mean if you're into her then be honest and play it straight. It's so easy for people to get caught up in these types of games... then anxiety starts to build and things get miss intrepeted, complicated, confused... and why? Just so you can pretend that you're in control, or have "hand" in the relationship? Just to make someone work harder then nesscary to be with you?

No it's childish you make it harder then it needs to be people get over it and move one. When two people meet and its meant to be they should make it as easy as possible to be together. Once one person starts to feel they are working harder then they should be to make it work then resentment, anxiety and frustration builds. Not good.

[Iron_Man]

It can work depends on how well you know her

[jennifer_bloom]

It depends what you mean I think. It does not make sense to be purposely difficult but establishing boundaries and delaying intimacy for security and self-protection is the smart way to date. Also refusing to offer too much before you are certain your with a good and compatible person, that is also good and wise.

[Jessica405]

No. It is risky. Play too hard, and they will go find someone else.

[Waldoe]

Never... they may ghet hurt feelings and walk away... forever. Do NOT play games

[Anonymous]

Never, Games never work.