When a woman says this, it's a mind game, and it is best to dump her, true or false?

[Anonymous]

So, I have been attempting to improve things with the girlfriend recently (for context) and she said the following when I asked her "what can I do to make things better between us"... Her response was "you should know already and do it".. Sorry I'm not a mind reader. I'm considering kicking her out of my home considering we basically have a dead bedroom as well and she is hiding her phone from me and blocking me from seeing her text messages.

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[HollyK21]

I definitely think she needs to do a better job at communicating her feelings because as you said — you’re not a mind reader. On the other hand, she may feel like she’s already expressed what’s wrong even if it wasn’t done in the best way, like during an argument. Regardless, you’ve given her the opportunity to tell you what she needs and essentially she rejected it. So if she doesn’t want to fix your relationship then unfortunately I’d say throw in the towel. I wouldn’t advise kicking her out, especially if your driving force is the assumption that she’s doing something wrong like cheating — solely because you don’t know for sure. Instead, I’d give her a window of time to find another living arrangement. Even though you’re frustrated/angry with her, you want to do what’s morally right and throwing her out on the street may not ultimately sit right with you.

[Asker]

Could not agree more

[KatherineJ]

I can’t answer for all women. But if you both aren’t communicating, what’s the point of being together? Only you can answer that.

[Asker]

No disagreement. I suspect she's cheating though. This all started about a year ago.

[KatherineJ]

Time to end it? I mean even if she isn’t being unfaithful, it doesn’t sound like you are compatible.

[Asker]

No disagreement. I just hate to leave her homeless. She lives in my home, drives my cars.. She doesn't have anything of her own.

[KatherineJ]

Well, unless you want to run a charity, then that’s just too bad.

[Asker]

Right!! Some women on here would call me hateful and sexist for that..

[KatherineJ]

And you are worried about random strangers opinions on here?

[Asker]

You got a point.

[Guy13]

It sounds like she is using you as a temporary dwelling. Hiding phone is a clear sign that someone else is screwing her !!!

[TroyDT2]

Do what you want, but if I got that response I'd be done.