"Whatever a woman says... do the opposite"?

[Viking2015]

Heard this said by a few women.. sounds comical to me. Is this actually true for any women?😂 I swear they were serious about that insight.

Yes

No

[JayParris]

Lol. First off, don't ask, tell. If you're going out with the guys, you're going out with the guys. If she says "fine", then its fine. If she says she doesn't want you to go, ask her why. If she has a better plan, I'd stay, but if she starts spouting that jealousy shit, I'm going anyway and she'll just have to trust me.

DO NOT waste your time and beat yourself to death trying to figure out what she wants. It's a control tactic meant to keep you confused and under her thumb. As far as I'm concerned, she can speak her mind like an adult or pout like a child, but that choice is hers to make

[HiBye101]

Maybe some.

You don’t want to do that for everyone then your not being yourself. I think the women don’t like it when guys are predictable I think they were trying to say.. Like you don’t always have to agree with them, or do what they want you to do. That becomes a turnoff after awhile and the guy probably won’t even realize why she left.

[samhradh_leannan]

This definitely does not apply as a general rule. If a woman says she doesn’t want to do something or is not okay with something, it’s best to assume that she means it. If she asks you to vacuum the floor, she doesn’t actually mean that she wants you to get it dirtier. I mean, use your head. But, when it comes to certain more subtle emotional issues, it can happen. She may say she wants you to leave her alone when in fact she wants to be comforted. That kind of thing.

[Claire2017]

A girl-child might give you that advice - a real woman would not. Depends in who you're spending time with I guess

[Viking2015]

Well it wasn't someone i hang out with

[azzntittiz]

Not for me only lying ass bitches who can't say what
s on their mind. That's actually the case for men though.

[Astoriana]

That's a really really great way to get arrested on rape charges. Don't be an asshole.

[Viking2015]

I'm not acting on it just asking a question lol

[Astoriana]

I don't know why you're laughing. It isn't funny.

[Viking2015]

Don't know why you're assuming an asshole wen I'm asking a question about something I heard. FYI this was said from a woman to a man in a conversation that I was present for. So keep your assumptions.

[Astoriana]

Because I see you going around to the men's opinions where they're agreeing, and making light of what could be rape.

[Viking2015]

Then you need to check harder or again stop the assumptions because I've not agreed to or liked any opinion here. If you want to know something ask me.. don't just assume.

[Astoriana]

Women can be misogynists too. It's creepy as shit that you would even consider this to be true.

[Cuteusernamehere]

Depends on the situation. If she says "fine go ahead" in that voice that all guys should know by now that's more of a dare and you will pay for it later. If she says "if you do that it's over between us" she means it.

[iminhell]

I wouldn't say everything. I think in most cases they mean do the opposite when she responds with something like go ahead its fine or i dont care. In those cases a lot of times they can mean the opposite.

[Annie_Mosity]

I said Yes... but does that actually mean I meant No?

[itwasmelaniasfault]

Yes?

[BroKenWinggS]

When we are having an argument. Yes this rule applies.
If l say "get the fuck out". And you actually attempt to leave. I'm gonna be pissed. Lol

[Viking2015]

You see why it then its confusing lol

[BroKenWinggS]

Yes, I know.

[kimberleylove]

it depends especially if your girlfriend says "leave me alone" it usually means "don't you dare leave me alone "lol

[Viking2015]

That's the kind of situation they were discussing.. the guy went out when he should have stayed in.

[LunaJ]

that is an example when the woman has no idea about how the male mind works.
in a fight / woman with emotional issue /whatever , a guy always takes her word as a clue to what to do.

it's so easy to tell you guys that what behavior we need from you at that moment 😐 i don't understand why so many woman can't do it

[Viking2015]

It's so confusing lol

[LunaJ]

just meet the right girl. 😊

i simple told to my boyfriend when i had an emotional outburst that "i need only your understanding & thanks for your tolerance" (i hoped he will tolerate it lol)
when i finished my monolog he said "uhm i think i understand it so far"
that's all. he did what i needed at that moment.

[Viking2015]

Yea I tend to meet women who pull away. That's just been my luck. Luckily I only overheard this advise it was given to another guy.

[LunaJ]

well, my advice is, to find a girl who can communicate well. not plays stupid games n knows what she wants.
woman who pulls away not knows her own desires clearly

[Izumiblu]

/)_- maybe because you hang out with stupid women. I say... good fucking luck with that.

[Viking2015]

This wasn't from anyone I hang out with

[Izumiblu]

Good. Keep it that way.

[LunaJ]

if you have a stupid player woman who never tells you what she really thinks 💭 ... then yes ✔️

[jammy85]

Pete... Never do this ok lol. You will be taking the bait, and you know she's waiting

[MiamiMadness]

lol they mean some girls don't always say what they mean or in other words "Jedi Mind Tricks"

[TacosRAwesome]

Depends... If it comes to dating advice, kinda yes.

[Viking2015]

How so?

[TacosRAwesome]

Sometimes women advice guys to be super cheesy and romantic and then consider such behaviour too intense and creepy when it actually happens.

[samhradh_leannan]

Or they say they’re not into that stuff but they secretly want it.

[TacosRAwesome]

@samhradh_leannan its possible.

[samhradh_leannan]

Good luck boys XD

[DamnMan]

Basically, don't listen to women, they don't know what the hell they are talking about... most of the time.

[Wesley_5577]

Honestly, you're fucked no matter what you do most of the time.

[Mitch6192]

This

[grega239]

Women think 1 thing, say something different and do something opposite of that

[Ju_Dee_King]

I mainly read their actions in the present moment

[cupidkisses]

No it's not true

[CT_CD]

Yes.