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I lose interest when I see they don't communicate at my level, or find that they don't have any similarities in terms of views, interests, goals in life, sense of humor, etc.
Also, I find it fair to ask the other person to provide pictures of themselves, especially if they don't have many. Physical attraction is a thing lol
I have only ever dated one person, but yea the "send me a pic" thing would make me leave instantly. Other things include smoking or any kind of excessive use of something unhealthy, bringing up stuff like sex too early on also doesn't sit well with me, and last (I'm sure there's more but this is just off the top of my head) if they seem unmotivated about everything and don't actually have something they're passionate about.
Ok, it would have to be
1 always cancel plans (I understand things happens but 2x of SEEING EACH OTHER been together 4 months come on )
2 short text me (no deep conversation)
I would have to feel like we taken it forward not backwards
3 I can't stand when a guy don't ingage themselves (like I wanna know you I'm texting questions) about life values goals morals and you ain't ask me once
4 don't treat me like I'm stupid or an object
There are innumerable things that could cause loss of interest and can be subliminal in that you pick up something that is not quite right for you without it being front and center in the neo cortex. A lack of courtesy/politeness/basic respect for others would be an immediate see you later. If there seems to be dishonesty in the person that is even worse. Or lack of sense - I don't want to be involved in others bad decisions.
When she asks, “What do you do?”, i lose 100% interest instantly. Men don’t want to be reduced to financial assets any more than women want to be reduced to sexual objects. Now let me be clear, if resources are your main goal, you SHOULD ask that question, and early. There are guys for you. But if you want something more meaningful, you better be about something other than my job and my bank accounts.
Wait what. Everyone asks that. Asking what they do for work is normal for both parties
Not everyone, obviously. I don’t. It’s highly unlikely i’m the only person alive who doesn’t. Even more unlikely that i’m the only one throughout all of human history. You didn’t really put much thought into it, did you?
“You are not your job, you’re not how much money you have in the bank. You are not the car you drive. You’re not the contents of your wallet. You are not your f***ing khakis.”
I am none of these things. I am so much more. If someone can’t understand this, then i am not only more than they can fathom, i’m much more than they deserve.
Just being a comparison early on is probably the easiest one, you can see it in the responses too. Like no one has to "stack up or down" to someone previously keep that to yourself until you know someone better. I hadn't personally experienced it in a long time but you watch these shows and be like dang, you really are like this.
I usually start to feel paranoid like why does he want one? What will he do with it? What’s going on? can't you see the pictures on my Instagram?
So I usually just end the convo and not reply anymore. It’s been a while since I’ve “talked” to a guy online like that. Im into meeting them in person now.
I loose interest when I feel a shift in their energy towards me. For example I was recently talking to this guy but I feel him change, he started talking to me less and stopped making an effort so I lost interest completely. He blamed it on work but I felt like it was more then that 🤷🏽♀️
Come to think of it, I'm kinda the same, if a girl starts seeming 'cold' towards me out of nowhere it kills my interest pretty much overnight. I always give a chance for her to correct course, coz maybe I genuinely just caught her at a bad moment and she's bringing some outside stuff into our interaction as a result. But if she continues being frosty and distant then I'm like, "nope!"
@SomeGuyCalledTom yeah bc by then it’s like what’s the point lol
Lol exactly 😅
Curious if that’s “send me a pic” statistics refers to something innocent or is it send me a nudie? Can guys screw things up even if they didn’t have bad intentions with that?
Well I need to see first who I’m talking to… not only nudes and stuff. I wanna know if I’m talking to a man or a frog 🐸. Not your abs or your d/ck or your pet 😑
I have never sent a girl an unsolicited D pic in my life. I know some guys do this but I don’t know what the hell is wrong with them. When has that in itself ever gotten anyone laid?
The picture you show is basically like if companies ask you for your ID, you have 79% chance of losing interest for that job.
Anyway to answer your question, if it seems like they're hiding something. It's a waste of time to be interested with someone dishonest
Sending or requesting nude pic's
Snapping at me unnecessarily.
Flaunting their money.
Bragging about sexual prowess.
Rudeness.
Lack of chivalry, gentleman behaviour.
When they can't hold a conversation. If you're gonna reply in 3 word sentences and not contribute to the conversation i can only assume you'll put the same amount of effort into a relationship
If I see or sense any lack of interest my brain goes immediately to I’m wasting my time on someone who doesn’t want me and lose feelings.
Oh I move on by keeping my distance and lost contact period
Will not cook, clean, iron shirts, bring me cold beers, make sandwiches and other womanly duties.
You need a maid to pay for that 😂
I know right!
When she lets me know by her actions that she's minimally interested. One person cannot keep a relationship afloat.
Like what actions
Generally when women want to know you they'll ask probing questions. To get a better idea of who you are. Try to find some common ground between you two. If she's not doing that. Then I have to conclude she's NOT interested. There's no shortage of women who'll flirt with a guy. But their actions are very different from the women who actually want to know that guy. Basically I just want to know that she's got a good heart.
If he's an hypocrite
if he's obsessed with apperance
if he's a democrat / liberal
We needs pics to upload to those disgusting ex-girlfriend porn sites.
Usually when they make a sexist joke and expect me to laugh :/
Laugh 😂 then 😑 that’s my reaction after a tasteless joke
Yeah.
Send him a pic and then he asking about a body pic.
I’ll send him a 🍆 pic 🤣 the vegetable
So a girl asking for pics is OK but not the other way around? The female hypocrisy is just... WOW!
I want to see a man’s face so I know if I’m talking to a real man not a robot or a poser
And we don't have a right to know the same thing?
Nobody said you have no right. Don’t take the meme so seriously 😂