Though this girl liked me now I feel lost as i'm unsure whats going on?

[Anonymous]

was relatively certain she liked me based on the various encounters we had over the last year or so. we had never actually liked dated but we did see a lot of each other.

but then July hit and it seemed like she and her girlfriend's weren't being honest with me about this. it doesn't make a lot of sense as may and June had went by so well and we got along good. i'm still not entirely sure whats going on with her , she or her friends have yet to actually tell me so i'm left to try and fill in the pieces on my own

so now i feel kind of lost , its a tough feeling to describe as i had really liked her and that gave me more energy and purpose in my life. now i just feel alone , frustrated and annoyed that she won't even be honest with me

[Guy13]

Have you sat down and talk to her about things. She’s probably expecting that🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

not entirely sure she wants to do that , we do talk in person but always at this pub/restaurant. i'm not even sure what to say at this point

[Asker]

its one of those , just not sure i could handle the truth if its hurtful , i'd like to keep her as a friend which makes it more difficult to know what to say

[Guy13]

I'm also certain everybody has this crap. I started doing what we did in the beginning. She eventually picked-up on it after the Carousel ride etc... I do not know as I;m not there and sure am not some expert... thinking out loud. Hope it works out well for you.

[In_Trance]

You're too old for these games. Have a face to face conversation and figure it out

[Asker]

we have talked inperson many times this summer , it just seems like there avoiding a more personal conversation about this situation and try and stay nice with me

[In_Trance]

So put an end to that crap

[Asker]

i'm just not entirely sure what the truth is so not entirely sure what such a conversation would be like especially with her

[In_Trance]

smh... I think you lied about your age