I don't and what I've noticed over the years is that there's a possibility some of the girls i shot my shot with may have not actually rejected to me and maybe they were playing hard to get as once I get signs that they're not into me, I remove myself from the situation and don't talk to them again.
I make my intentions clear and I don't play games, I literally spell it out in plain English that I want us to be boyfriend and girlfriend. This no-nonsense approach has gotten me rejected almost every time but it's also worked exactly twice, with my first girlfriend and my current girlfriend who I've been with for 2 years now.
I view playing games such as dominating the girl, playing hard to get, showing off and stuff as pointless and immature which is why I don't engage in it. I'm also not an interesting person at all despite my turbulent assertive personality but my life as a bad kid allows me to compensate for my boring personality with funny stories from back then.
No, I'm very easy to get for the one who backs up words with actions and is genuine. Doesn't mean they will be in my bed but I'm not going to pretend I feel one way or want one thing when I want another. However, I will pace myself with whomever I am dealing with because itnis ery much a poker game at the start and cards cannot be laid out at first glance.
Only because i tolerate very little. Any red flags and im out the door straight away. Im very direct and blunt so i have no energy for lies or "politeness".
Just be careful that you don’t misread something. For example a guy tries making a sexual joke and you get automatically creeped out. He might of have been jsut thing to be funny. Sometimes men make honest mistakes.
I never know if they're playing hard to get or if I'm just another one of their options. Personally I only put in as much effort as they do. If I notice they aren't really trying then I just open my eyes and start searching for some other girl. in my opinion I always feel like I'm just another option and never the one they actually want.
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Anonymous
(36-45)
1 y
This tough. I was one do those too available and too honest nice guys growing up. I got treated like complete shit for it. So in my mid 20s I started following doc love and Corey Wayne. I learned how much women crave challenge in men.
I started getting a lot more action by not being available so much.
Hard to get is very immature. I admire your approach. If someone rejects me, i take it at face value and respect that answer, and move on. If they were playing hard to get, they weren't worth being with in the first place.
I had that same mindset where the girl knows I like her, I'm not a fuck boy, I dont follow hundreds of IG female half naked models on social media and I was clear and communicative with the girls who have played the hard-to-get card but it led no where. Because they just like the attention. Guys hate this and tend to eventually say f-it. Unless he's obsessive and still pursues a girl mistreating him and toying with his emotions which is a sign of immaturity.
No, but I sometimes just haven't noticed when a girl was interested.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
1 y
I dont like playing games it's just a waste of time for the ones who are actually giving all their best to one person who is childless enough to play a game
