Do you play hard to get?

Question

I don't and what I've noticed over the years is that there's a possibility some of the girls i shot my shot with may have not actually rejected to me and maybe they were playing hard to get as once I get signs that they're not into me, I remove myself from the situation and don't talk to them again.

I make my intentions clear and I don't play games, I literally spell it out in plain English that I want us to be boyfriend and girlfriend. This no-nonsense approach has gotten me rejected almost every time but it's also worked exactly twice, with my first girlfriend and my current girlfriend who I've been with for 2 years now.

I view playing games such as dominating the girl, playing hard to get, showing off and stuff as pointless and immature which is why I don't engage in it. I'm also not an interesting person at all despite my turbulent assertive personality but my life as a bad kid allows me to compensate for my boring personality with funny stories from back then.

Do you play games?

RavVid · Accepted Answer

Have the girls even known your name? Are you a complete stranger to them?

Walking up to stranger girls and asking them to have your babies is possibly a little over the top.

Asking stranger girls to be your girlfriend could be seen similarly.

Rather then playing hard to get, you could be creating automatic NO scenarios.

Next time you are on the market, maybe step it down a notch.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

nope... my last girlfriend, literally said "you're mine now"  and I was like, alright... guess I am, lol

DermalPunch · Accepted Answer

No, I'm very easy to get for the one who backs up words with actions and is genuine. Doesn't mean they will be in my bed but I'm not going to pretend I feel one way or want one thing when I want another. However, I will pace myself with whomever I am dealing with because itnis ery much a poker game at the start and cards cannot be laid out at first glance.

mermaidcancermoon · Accepted Answer

I dont "play" hard to get, I am hard to get.

Only because i tolerate very little. Any red flags and im out the door straight away. Im very direct and blunt so i have no energy for lies or "politeness".

Pinay_ako · Answer

Playing games is for the players. Do not play hard to get if you’re hard to want! Be upfront and don’t waste time.

red324 · Answer

I never know if they're playing hard to get or if I'm just another one of their options. Personally I only put in as much effort as they do. If I notice they aren't really trying then I just open my eyes and start searching for some other girl. in my opinion I always feel like I'm just another option and never the one they actually want.

Anonymous · Answer

This tough. I was one do those too available and too honest nice guys growing up. I got treated like complete shit for it. So in my mid 20s I started following doc love and Corey Wayne. I learned how much women crave challenge in men.

I started getting a lot more action by not being available so much.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

No, I sometimes have to try hard not to be slutty. I'm a sweet guy most of the time, but I do get into a weird pervy headspace sometimes where I just want to feel attractive and fuck somebody.

VanguardTitan · Answer

Hard to get is very immature. I admire your approach. If someone rejects me, i take it at face value and respect that answer, and move on.
If they were playing hard to get, they weren't worth being with in the first place.

Marshymallow · Answer

I don’t mean to but lol I feel like I usually do. Gotta put in that effort to see you’re serious

AviatorTom · Answer

No I don't. IMHO, that would be a waste of energy.

Queeninmydreams · Answer

It's no fun, darling, if we don't play the game

Monah4billion · Answer

I don't tho am a guy but I hate women who play hard to get.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No. I take dating seriously. I don't play hard to get, I just need a long time to warm up to you.

kikissss · Answer

But what about the fact that we say we are not interested and they keep bugging us? Some men think a no is chase harder!

Subarugirl · Answer

no.… if I act like I am not interested... it's because I am not.

isoterminal2060 · Answer

If you asked me if I actually wear my heart on my sleeve so too speak No I don't

zagor · Answer

No, but I sometimes just haven't noticed when a girl was interested.

Anonymous · Answer

I dont like playing games it's just a waste of time for the ones who are actually giving all their best to one person who is childless enough to play a game

hostboy__fastestlaps · Answer

Never. Playing hard to get is for simps, bitches, and pussies.

Raaj4you · Answer

I lose interest when girls play hard to get.

Zolly99999 · Answer

Playing hard to get is a real turn off to me.

Jupiter1 · Answer

I did when I was younger. I don't play those childish games anymore.

Jltakk · Answer

Few things I hate more than seeing people play games with each others feelings.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Yeah. I’ve been hurt before and I never want to feel that way again

Nikki1989 · Answer

I try, but I usually give in very easily.

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

Sometimes. Sometimes I just can’t and I give in 😂

katestar · Answer

Yes. I agree with that. What about guy friends?

Anonymous · Answer

Only hot people do

Anonymous · Answer

I give what I'm given.

Guy13 · Answer

No I do not.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I don't play games.

raqui · Answer

No. But I am.

NNWSSEnew · Answer

Children play games.

Do you play hard to get?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Do you play hard to get?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.