Did I say something wrong?

[Anonymous]

I've been chatting with this girl but at some point she gave me one worded replies and said our interests are different. I then told her it's better that way and it gives us all the more reason to keep talking to eachother.

She then called me and said she just needed some space and she wasn't feeling too much of a spark with me- to which I replied "what can I do to make you feel the spark?" She said "it's something that should come naturally, can't force it" to which I said "we need to do more activities together for you to feel the spark in me." She then said she just needed a break and ended the call, we're both 27 by the way.

[Guy13]

Yes you said something wrong because you are male speaking to a female...

[Guy13]

She did not want you displaying no backbone... making her drive the conversational Decision.-that question you asked. She did NOT need a used car salesman pressuring her to BUY !!!

Make sense?

[Asker]

Sorry, but what is wrong in saying we should keep talking to get to know more about eachother? She can't expect too many interests to be the same with a guy. Also she said she's just not feeling it, which is why I said we should do more activities together. Why is that wrong?

[Guy13]

She said she did not want too. I'm a guy and you are coming off as a high-pressured window salesman. Your behavior demonstrated an inability to listen, therefore, she threw her hands in the air and said "Done".

[Asker]

Lol she was interested enough to chat with me, then she says some bs like "I initially didn't feel that much of a spark with you but decided to chat and get to know you better before deciding." Then told me "I'm sorry I'm not really feeling a spark or anything with you"

It's ridiculous, how can she even 'know' she doesn't like me? I mean she admits that was was ok with getting to know me before deciding, so I'm telling her that we should do things together to make her like me.

[Guy13]

You lost... You are not in control... accept it. Why are you continually justifying losing action with false positive reasoning.

[Asker]

You're defending her actions? What was so wrong with what I said?